Hey Seddit, so bear with me, I've been reading pretty much all the PUA material I can get my hands on, videos as well and here on the forum. A couple of days ago I started the 30 Day Challenge and I got up to day 10 when I stopped because I thought I'd improve myself before going on (started doing some workout which has actually improved my body).

I gotta say, I'm a native Spanish speaker, but can perfectly have a normal conversation in English, however, I'm in Germany and I just CAN'T stress how annoying it is that I can't seem to get women to open up. My German is ok, but not good enough so that I can flirt or neg or anything else using it. Just have a vanilla conversation and when I try to approach in English some are responsive for a while, then go and others plainly say they don't speak English (and some I know, are lying but whatever be burned and move on).

My problem is 3 out of 10 times I can approach with the 3 second rule but the other times I second guess myself, can't decide on which language to engage and end up being burned even before trying or telling to myself I blew it because now she knows I'm hovering so won't even try. I had NEVER tried to approach women in such a persistent way so many times, and doing it in a place where I can't even properly speak the language feels like I set the bar pretty high for myself.

I, by no means will give up, I am going out there right now (again) to try to talk to some women, but I am not expecting much to be honest. I don't know how to approach them (english? german? as a mime?). I even joined OkCupid just to improve my odds but nothing. I have been looking for close-by lairs or PUA's that could help me but nothing and even with all of this, I feel I gotta move on...I would just like to know, where...

TL;DR I am trying to improve, I really am, but I set the bar pretty high for myself without wanting to do so (in Germany with some insufficient knowledge of German) I however WILL NOT surrender, but I need pointers as to what to do and where to go.