I am 33. I have been married for 13 years. My wife and I both enjoy women so my “game” has never been turned off.

That being said, I am -ugly- bro. I mean it. I’m not like “deformed” ugly, but I am definitely way too skinny and nothing like the stereotypical dude I grew up wanting desperately to be. That dude was the dude who gets chicks without trying. The dude who chicks run after. I cannot describe how far I am away from that. Don’t get me wrong, I have things to offer but I always believed that despite having good things to offer, that because I wasn’t the big strong adventurous male that it didn’t matter. I would have to settle for whatever low self-image female could see passed my genetic failings and convince herself through mental gymnastics that I’m not bottom of the barrel.

But... I never had trouble getting “laid” nor did I have trouble eventually finding love.

Why? How?

There are some things you need to realize about people... most of them suck ass. Seriously. Even among the “beautiful” people most people will only look out for themselves and won’t ever love anyone the way that you want to be loved.

What’s this mean? It means that you shouldn’t feel “less” because you can’t attract “everyone”. Think about what those flocks of desirable women are thinking that chase those stereotypical dudes. Nothing. Going solely on instinct. You don’t want these girls. So relax. The -one- that you need is out there looking for you just as desperately as you are looking for her. Believe it. There is a person out there that is DESPERATE to meet you and be loved by you. We are all desperate to be accepted and to be loved. That being said you don’t want the wrong person. I promise you that. The wrong person, is worse than perpetual loneliness you can be SURE of that.

I digress, I’m supposed to be giving you a gift of seeing something for how it is. So this girl out there that will love you for you and be the kind of partner you need in life? She wants to meet you too dude. She doesn’t want to be accidentally overlooked. She doesn’t want you to be scared of her or to be nervous. Damnt bro she wants to MEET you!!!

So, you’re out and about right? And you see a beautiful girl that stands out of the crowd to you... why is she standing out to you?? Isn’t that important? Wouldn’t your soulmate want you to come over and spark up that first conversation with them!!? They would I promise.

So when you see a girl that grabs your attention, what are you waiting for? Go tell her how special you think she is. She might be your soulmate bro bro. Don’t be nervous, why would you be?? This person might be your best friend, literally waiting this whole damn life for YOU.

“Hi my name is Bill” response I was over there blank and I couldn’t help but come over here and talk to you. response

How hard is that? You don’t need a “plan” bro. You just have to put yourself out there.

Rejection is a -good- thing. It is a time saver, and time is something we don’t have a lot of.

I believe we all have a soulmate, I believe that you will be given the chance to be with your soulmate.. but I also believe that you could potentially miss your chance too. Nothing sounds worse than that.

Everyday when you leave your house, say to yourself “Today might be the day I meet my soulmate” and make sure you are prepared Damnt. Shower up. Dress clean. Remind yourself just WHO you are and what’s important to you. Women want us to be capable and present.

Women’s uteruses are the only part of them that pushes them blindly towards the big and strong dudes. At the end of the day they just want to feel safe and loved. They need to know that ours going to do whatever it takes for them, and shit if you’re trapped on the sideline you will never ever score.

My advice only pertains to those men who want to be in love. To have a woman to hold and make happy. To sacrifice for her and to have her back no matter what mistakes she makes.

Men’s responsibility to the women in their life is something that isn’t really up to debate in the minds of the men who actually succeed in making their women happy and fulfilled.

Edit 1: FYI, I am your friend. I care about everyone. It hurts me when I see other people hurting. I made this post because I know that many men hurt because they don’t have a loving relationship with a woman, and isn’t something that they have to suffer from. Not only because love is within your grasp, but because the healthy mind state that you deserve isn’t one of pain and self-loathing. I have discovered many things about life after being miserable for a very long time.

I now know the many things that made me miserable and I see them and other things affecting people and I truly believe that if someone truly wants to be happy that I might be able to help them simply by sharing what I have learned in life through my intellectual and spiritual pursuits.

Nobody needs to share my spiritual beliefs to be happy lol. There are some objectively true things about being human that people need to understand and many of them are directly contradicted by the brainwashing of western media.

I am here for everyone. Anyone. If I can give you something you need I will give it to you. Please believe that I only want you to be happy.

Women want a man that is good enough to like himself for good reason. They want a man to be good and righteous and humble and courageous. These aren’t ridiculous expectations.

If you think that you deserve to get any female you want I cannot help you. If what you want is a girl that fulfills you and makes you happy then I got the information that you need, but it is complicated and at times it will seem whimsical... but if you can “get over yourself” I promise that you can be happy. It’s your birthright.

Even if you are some kind of deformed person, there is someone out there that will love you just because you love them.

We have to remember, we would rather have an “8” that worships us than a “10” that cheats on us.

If you cloud your mind with the preconceptions that have made you miserable thus far you’ll never hear the liberating wisdom in my words.

Good luck.