So to make thing sort, the other night I was at the bar with some buddies. Lately at the bar I just get a water and sit and watch, and talk with a friend or two. Now there was one of the hotter girls in the and near my table and she started dancing and just generally drawing attention to herself. I ignored her and she picked up on it. She and her group started gravitating towards my table, as she was dancing more and starting to grind up on her friend while shooting glances in my direction. The more I ignored the more obvious and “desperate” she was.

This went on for a little longer but my problem was that I wanted to talk to this girl. But I figured her attraction was based on my lack of attention to her. So acknowledging her would break that.

Now maybe this is me hamstering because at least saying something is better than saying what I did, nothing.