Take myself. I'm far from young. And I have no status, no money, no career, no social circle (no interest, given I hate social bullshit), no insight/care about the "relationship concept" given I don't care about anything social, no practical skills (limited capacity from learning problems), no wit, no understanding of finances (see above), no communication skill, no concern or interest for "social mores" (see above), and so on. I could go on... and on.

Now, I do exist and I'm not lying about the above. Does this prove an affirmative to my own question?

Given that I have neither capability nor interest to change (even if a couple slight things could be improved) does that mean it's over, I would not even be able to have a fling even once per lifetime?


These days I can barely even fathom the idea of having one friend in real life, I hate the idea of social rejection and as a result, no longer want to deal with ANY social obligation at all, ever.

A lot of you have offered the idea of "find meetup or group" but what is the fucking use--did you read my biography above? It's just more belittlement, indifference, and rejection, nobody gives a shit. Look at the treatment I receive online--I cannot count the number of times I was given contact information on Messenger by someone who stops talking, a week later, if even that long.

Is the writing on the wall, or what? WTF dude, how is it someone like me exists--I have EVERY possible quality women do not want.

I can say I'm 5'9" and average looking--that's it. The only thing I can say is this: I exist. But nothing beyond that.

Does anyone know guys like me, who still are able to attract gril?