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[–]rmbarnes 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why did you go back to your friends house? That sounds like shitty logistics and a recipe for not getting laid.
[–]thendrill 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Proximity, Logistics, Availability of alcohol...
And at the time it seemed like a good idea since we had a 2-2 going on...
[–]rmbarnes 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You should have had a quiet word with your friend, who would then in turn have a quiet word with his friend telling him to leave. TBH, you're friend is a bit of a numpty for letting the chode in if his aim was to nail one of the girls.
[–]thendrill 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes he is... The other guy is I think pissed on me coz he thought i was trying to nail his ex-gf a while ago
[–]rainman18 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well this plot just thickened.
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
:P
He is generally kinda wierd... He has no game but he has this boy band look that works for him...
I understood that the moment he bailed when I was about to open,
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Should've taken her to your house. And keep booze at your house at all times...gives you something to invite her over to do ("Let's go back to my house and have a drink").
Even if it's further, it's worth it for the privacy.
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
True... I would have if I could have seperated her from her friend.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I've had that problem before. On Saturday a seemingly 100% DTF girl was surrounded by like 8 of her girlfriends, couldn't get her out of there.
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So what is the propper action in that case !
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably should've just got her number, but I didn't.
Nahh she was out of town but I would have never meet her again
[–]MARSpu 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
AMOG/chode
This is very easy to deal with. If he's a chode, he shouldn't be a very strong AMOG; just dethrone the guy. Act like you run the place. It shouldn't be too much of an issue... from what it sounds like, he's a typical AFC with very little game.
What did the focus shift to, exactly? If you were on top of your game, the focus should have still been on you. You shouldn't let anything determine your interaction because otherwise, you're just being reactive. You want to be proactive.
[–]thendrill 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Problem is .... I am the outsider in the group... The other 2 are childhood friends...
The focus shifted on my HB9... Her friend started to get ignored and started to get bored....
And NO i was not on top of my game..... It was my first real K-close in a club ( ever ), and she was so unbelievably hot that I was thrown totally off... I am just amazed how far I managed to get...
[–]cytus 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Quite good.
So we are at his house. We just get the girls drinks...
First mistake. Explain to your buddy that you need a separate room at his place before leaving the club. Also say him that he gets HB6. If he resists, go somewhere else. No more drinks. Your girl was dtf, otherwise she wouldn't have joined.
And at this point I am like... If i stay no one is getting any, if i leave they have a chance and they are kinda buddies that i go out with every weekend and these chicks i will never see again.....
Second mistake. You did the work, you take the price. Let this be a lesson.
Indeed... Lesson learned...
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Ah sad story, mate.
I will add a 3rd mistake you did.
Once you have established that the amog/chode fuck up the mood, and your other mate, I'll call him the idiot, didn't remove him from the premises...
You should have invited your girl to your house, and spent the money on the taxi. Well worth it for a HB9. She came with you, not the amog. I personally can't believe you left the place. If the HB6 was acting up being left alone there, you suggest that you take a taxi together, first to YOUR place, then where the HB6 was going.
Damn. I am angry with you dude! :D Next time, just bang the chick god damn it!
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Yehh I know.. But see here is the problem... All forget about her friend the HB6... She was not going to split from here...
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link
I know.
You say: "Ah...fuck this. I'm beat. Wanna split?" to the HB9. HB9 goes to HB6: "Yeah. I want to leave." Hb6: "I'm coming too!" You: "sure! We'll split a cab."
Make sure YOU and HB9 in back seat, whilst 6 is in front, if possible. Convince the HB9 to go to you place. Drop off the HB6 wherever she is going to sleep. And tada. Didn't say it was easy, but possible. I know, cuz I've done it several times. Getting the cockblocking girlfriend away is an artform ;)
[–]JudgeWhoAllowsStuff 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I think you had it better before - let the other girl take the cab after OP and HB9 get to his place. That way HB6 won't try to convince HB9 to just bail because "it's getting late and you have blah blah fuckity blah to do in the morning..."
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
YEh...can't decide myself what is better.
Some places it is considered "dangerous" for a girl to take a taxi on her own. Not here, mind you.
Guess it depends.
Its a small town..No cabs. We are talking about walking distances of about 5-10 min.. But the temperature was like -20 C.
My place was 6 min away walk, where we went is like 30 sec. walk.
... You could've walked to your home?
I think it is pretty obvious what you should have done and said then.
Not trying to put you down here, btw. Hope you see that.
Nahh its fine... I know i screwed up on this and many other points... But the reason for not walking home was coz I couldnt split her from the friend... Also the BT was not high enought to convince her..
Yeh. What I am trying to explain, probably poorly, is that you needed to split them when they were alone, and the HB6 was "safe" in the HB9's head.
It's girl-think. Don't leave a friend behind in a strangers house. If you had handled the logistics, and got the HB6 home/hotel safe, you should have been home free. At least, there is a chance of that happening, as opposed to quitting mid-stride.
Good luck on your next adventure, though. You have such a low AA, that ALOT of those opportunities will come, I think. But maybe you should find some other wing? Those 2 chodes don't deserve you, imho.
About the AA yeh... I do have it around large sets...4+ girls... And on some random ocasions....
About the wing, I dont really tell any of my friends about "game"... And most of my friends do go out.. So I am usualy alone, so I didnt really know what to do with a wing....
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They were both from out of town, staying at a hotell for the night.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
home/hotell. What is the difference. (I edited my post btw... :) )
[–]thendrill 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She was not going to leave here... I did try to split them... she even told me after one of the make outs: "some one has to take care of my friend"
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Someone has to take care of my friend" doesn't actually mean that.
She doesn't want to leave her alone with strangers. Taking that HB6 home (hotel) is a perfectly acceptable solution, in most cases. Logically this is silly of course, because she will be perfectly happy being with a stranger (you). But you have built a trust relationship, and she hasn't. Girls...strange.
[–]iznou 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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Thanx.. I would love to give more detail if someone has any questions..
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should have both told that guy to fuck off. No nice way to do it, but that's what he gets for pushing himself into a situation he shouldn't be in.
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[–]thendrill 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
FR- Field Report
HB- Hot Babe
AMOG- Alpha Male other guy.
Chode- a guy that doesnt have game, doesnt know what to do with girls.
First time here ? Welcome :)
[–]rayquaza5000 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AMOG: Alpha male of group. FTFY.
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Welcome :)
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