Plate reached out only to ghost.

Iron_and_Glass · 2018-08-07T22:56:15+00:00

She was looking for validation. You gave it. That was all she wanted, to answer the question in the back of her head of "do you still want her?"

JediMindTwix · 2018-08-07T23:01:53+00:00

"who is this" is the proper reply, I believe.

brkakmn · 2018-08-07T23:54:28+00:00

Too many sentences. You forgot to apply 3/2.

Bruchibre · 2018-08-08T02:00:54+00:00

Who the fuck does this?

Tons of girls do this. Mostly brain-dead ones who need some electroshock of attention/validation.

In my case usually two post wall ex plates who get very bored in their lives.

They want some entertainment from you but can't be bothered having a conversation.

SkorchZang · 2018-08-08T04:53:02+00:00

All of them. All of them do this.

The delay was ok (should've waited 24h), but the content of your response was too eager and watery.

Better response examples:

"peachy, u?"

"busy, u?"

"hey stranger"

"who's this"

"ok, u?"

The big uniting idea is that it's a short low effort sentence. Definitely not two sentences and definitely not too polite. Not that you lost out on anything by responding "wrongly", it's just one of those games they like to play and is more enjoyable if you play right.

Ricklogical · 2018-08-08T03:05:21+00:00

Lame. You have to assume she's bored or out of other options or fishing for less attractive options than her usual ones.

There are only two great ways to handle this, continue working on yourself tell she's slobbering over the new you, or cut her out and ignore her because you obviously are not her type and she's just a waste of attention.

The two options are actually the same. You become great and she wants you, but you can acquire much better chicks and probably know much better chicks so both options lead to her not being very appealing to you.

RedLegendx · 2018-08-07T23:12:12+00:00

An attention whore, just block her number and on everything else.

Kabuki431 · 2018-08-08T02:37:41+00:00

Validation thats it, one of my plates did this. My response was 3/1 never heard from her again

redisthetruth · 2018-08-08T06:50:17+00:00

When you have abundance mentality, stuff like this doesn’t even register on your radar. Things happen. People have lives. Women are emotional. She wanted a response, she got one, but then she had something better to do than have a conversation. Just let it go and focus on your mission. Once your mission is strong, women start becoming less and less attractive an option to spend your time on.

healthyteacher4 · 2018-08-08T06:22:27+00:00

You were her green turtle shell, but then she got a red turtle shell instead somewhere else.

Mariokart reference.

lauris652 · 2018-08-08T11:03:42+00:00

What about something like "Great" or whatever AND NOT asking her how is she? Wouldnt it be even better response than the ones you suggest?

MattyAnon · 2018-08-08T12:52:27+00:00

Who the fuck does this?

Girls who need validation and reach out to all their options after Chad dumps them.

trpchecker · 2018-08-08T05:47:28+00:00

Who is this? Lol. The idiot here suggesting you act like a girl. What dumbasses in trp. If you truly didn't know who she was you'd have responded by saying who is this?

But, you knew who she was. You cared enough to respond which means you seeked out contact wanting something from her. The right answer wouldve been not to respond.

Now you responded and she ghosted. So what? This happens a lot with plates. She just wanted to reach out and hamstering something in her mind with your response. You should just go on with life not worrying about trivial shit like this. Trp is not about playing games. It's about doing shit with your life and setting your frame. It's the girls job to get into your frame.

bannedbyrnewsmods1 · 2018-08-08T03:27:00+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Girl that ghosted me ( didn’t gaf) hit me up and friended me on Facebook one year after deleting me . Asked how I was doing . I said good, why? She asked what I meant by why. I said it seemed random. She said she doesnt like to leave things on bad terms. I told her I was not in bad terms but I’m glad she’s over it. I asked if she still lived here. She asked if I moved away without answering . I told her I’m still here.

Half a month later* she exclamation marks “what do you mean I’m over it”. And other bulls hit. I told her I was not going to argue. She responds “great. No contact.

What’s up with that? Here’s the kicker, she saw me with another girl who was blonde the weekend before initiating contact .

I realize my responses were too invested but I genuinely was curious as to wtf she chose to reach out. I give zero shits about banging her and would rather fuck with her to be honest

Morphs_ · 2018-08-08T05:26:38+00:00

Yeah had this too a while back. Lost contact with a plate, she said "how are you?" And didn't reply to my answer.

I think she was a bit insecure about things as she knew I wasn't looking for commitment and at that moment I had too many plates spinning.

Title	Plate reached out only to ghost.
Author	chim_city
Upvotes	27
Comments	39
Date	August 7, 2018 10:42 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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