So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?

Morokweng · 2017-07-24T09:12:35+00:00

Realise that sex isn't like porn. It's not supposed to be pretty or smooth, it can be messy and awkward just like the rest of your interactions with a girl you're trying to pull. But relax, let her relax too, female arousal is dependent on a feeling of security and comes from a slow gradual buildup over time.

Girls like foreplay a whole bunch, they also usually like hair pulling and spanking and stuff like that. Neck kissing and nibbling. Do that stuff. Girls tend to cum easier if you play with their clit, don't be above going down on her. Don't be afraid to fuck her properly, girls aren't fragile dainty little things.

Communicate honestly, find out what you both like, help each other have fun. Just don't worry about pleasing her over yourself, don't make her orgasm a means of validating yourself, otherwise you'll put pressure on her and she won't be able to have any and she'll fake them to avoid hurting your ego.

Generally don't think too much, but do learn how to put on a condom and do so. Then just let your instincts do their thing, and don't try anything too fancy.

vulgrrr · 2017-07-24T09:24:55+00:00

So yeah, I'd say don't forget to wrap your dick and maybe watch a tutorial on youtube or something on how to put a condom on. You don't want to have any sort of issues with this stuff.

Other than that just go with the flow. Don't overthink and overanalyze this. When you're hungry do you sit down and start wondering and considering how you're going to eat your meal?

Ragondux · 2017-07-24T09:13:02+00:00

You can practice putting a condom on by yourself. You should.

My first time was pretty late but she didn't notice I was a virgin. It doesn't have to be awkward, after all it's a very natural thing. Don't worry if you can't get it up. If you can get it up but you can't find the vagina, ask her to help you. If you're afraid of coming too soon, think of you grandma ;)

juliusstreicher · 2017-07-25T01:07:23+00:00

Don't squeeze their tits too hard. At least not at the beginning of the night. IIRC, my second sexual experience and thereafter with my 2nd gf, she told me "I love having sex with you, even when you're rough!" Uh, I was being rough??? OK... Point being, the tits will still be there so you don't need to get your feels in all at once.

Massage/rub their asses a lot, esp. the lower parts.

In porn, it looks like the guys are using their fingers, during foreplay, to emulate what a dick would do. Rather, use fingers to massage the G spot. Massage, don't poke.

All of this in addition to what everybody else says. These are things that nobody ever mentioned in my experience, and, subsequently, I didn't do as well as I should have, early on.

EddieJonesRFU · 2017-07-24T16:44:43+00:00

You're going to cum in a matter of seconds. Play it cool and just get ready for round 2.

savagesteve_13 · 2017-07-24T23:38:36+00:00

Watch a lot of porn, so you at least know the basics.

Title	So are there any thing a virgin should consider or watch out for the moment that first successful lay actually happens?
Author	Kakeshihayabusa221
Upvotes	15
Comments	23
Date	July 24, 2017 8:37 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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