What does it mean when a girl says you're "too good" for her/her friends/etc?

Stalked_Like_Corn · 2014-03-15T08:42:30+00:00

Yeah, that's a nice way of saying "i'm not interested" but instead of crushing your ego, they're trying to let you down with a compliment. They're not interested. No one ever turns down an upgrade. Ever. Move on.

RandianHero · 2014-03-15T07:37:45+00:00

You ever consider asking them?

puaCurveBall · 2014-03-15T08:38:50+00:00

You are over-compensating with DHV's and raising your value way past what is needed.

A girl wants to feel you are slightly better but within reach, not so crazy amazing that she doesn't have a chance.

You aren't doing enough comfort that grounds you as a person with real vulnerabilities, and should stop the DHV way sooner. Cut 3/4 of them out right away.

masterrod · 2014-03-15T09:58:23+00:00

Have you considered that your female friends actually want to date you?

Sky-Might-fall · 2014-03-15T16:34:40+00:00

None of the advice you'll get is situational. No one can tell you exactly how to get past it; we don't know how you really act. Talk to the girls that say that to you and ask them why. If it's bothering you that much, tell them.

NobodygoingNowhere · 2014-03-15T20:06:15+00:00

The only time I've heard this was from a female friends who basically told me I didn't have enough frame to maintain attraction and put up with her other friends shit tests I was "Too nice of a guy". I would either get pulled around or completely turned down but the final result would always be against my favor.

Often times "your to good" is just a nice way to turn you down. It would slap a women's ego to admit that you are better than her and disqualify herself so she would never say that directly unless shes rationalized it as letting you down easy. Move on.

joshsway · 2014-03-15T22:01:06+00:00

Usually girls say this as a nice way to say they are not interested, as /u/Stalked_Like_Corn said.

jkorms · 2014-03-16T22:14:01+00:00

Letting you down softly, bro.

mormon-virgin · 2014-03-20T12:42:58+00:00

Disqualification. It happens to all of us

Title	What does it mean when a girl says you're "too good" for her/her friends/etc?
Author	goijt
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	March 15, 2014 7:20 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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