Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?

caesarfecit · 2021-02-07T10:54:15+00:00

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caesarfecit · 2021-02-07T15:51:28+00:00

No woman is gonna be attracted to you if you act like a wimp or a simp more often than not. She wants you for your masculinity the same way you want her for her femininity.

That being said however, nobody can be in their masculine/feminine energy all the time and you shouldn't want to be.

Ever dated a super-feminine woman? Here's the short version - super cute, great sexual chemistry, very loving and loyal, but also needy, indecisive, shy when they should be bold, silent when they should speak up, never takes the lead, and gets attached very fast. Even if they don't say anything, you feel that emotional pressure.

Everyone has a masculine and a feminine side to their personality. Most people are 80/20 or 70/30 one way, but the point still stands. You should want someone that can handle, accept, and appreciate both sides to you. And if you find yourself having to stay in your masculine frame all the time to keep a relationship smooth, she's with you for the wrong reasons.

Bing_Bang_Bam · 2021-02-07T18:17:43+00:00

Be yourself. If they don't like you for you, fuck em. They've got no taste.

alexchasekamikaze · 2021-02-08T07:00:13+00:00

As a woman, consistant hypermasculinity is a tuen off. I think the problem is, unlike modern women, men don't get to play around with their gender expressions, and without experimentation in a certain field things you're awkward at it. So while women can acg appropriately for the situation, men go to awkward extremes.

Stomach-Patient · 2021-02-07T18:14:06+00:00

Woman here. Don’t listen to the guys saying “be hyper masculine at all times because that’s what women want even if they say they don’t”. That logic is so stupid to me. Be yourself. If yourself is a guy who likes to fish and chop wood and drink beer then great. If you’re more the type to stay at home and cuddle and watch anime or something (idk) then great! Being who you really are and being confident in who you are is going to bring women who are attracted to that type to you.

I hope that made sense

NateHate1402 · 2021-02-12T02:06:51+00:00

Yes but to varying degrees.

Title	Should you SHOW MASCULINITY to a woman ALL THE TIME?
Author	alexchasekamikaze
Upvotes	6
Comments	27
Date	February 7, 2021 12:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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