Hey so I know we've all been there, you're texting a girl you just met either online or in person and the convo is going great, until...well she deadlines and you aren't getting a response. From my experience and research here's exactly what you need to do.

You either have two options.

  1. Act like nothing happened
  2. Get upset

Acting like it doesn't bother you shows her that you're a guy of status. You're not worried or you're not so dependent on her approval or her validation of texting you back shows that you're 100% confident and comfortable in yourself! In return, this builds comfort/rapport with her subconsciously feeling comfortable around you and that she isn't your world, and that her non response isn't going to break you.

A lot of men will mix their confidence/identity in with getting women and getting texts back, which is the total opposite of a confident man!! A confident man will trust in himself and not take a text back so seriously and act like it's the end of the world. Who tf cares? So what do you do when she doesn't text back?

Text her either hours later or tomorrow with something that was completely undiscussed in yall's previous convo!** Showing her that you didn't even flinch to her not texting you back and that you can carry on the conversation without any idea of yesterdays shows her you value yourself , trust yourself, and are extremely confident in who you are as a person!

Hope this helps! love this subreddit there's always great material on here.