Hey, Seddit. I'm 23 and she's 25. Long story short, I've been on three dates with this girl. We get along really well and had sex on the last date. It feels like it's been more than three dates, but yada yada.

I've been dating other girls while I've been seeing her, I don't know if she's seeing other guys. We had the 'Define the Relationship' talk last date and she said she's not looking to do casual. I'm seeing her Thursday and thought about floating a "I wanted to clear something up - by not casual did you mean exclusive?" type question.

Obviously I'm concerned about coming across as needy. Would you all advise this or is this a bad move? I know conventional wisdom is to let her bring it up but I'm concerned we may be on different pages. She isn't the type of woman to put how she feels out there unpromted - kind of bashful. Thanks, guys.