I am sick of tired of girls that act like they are into me and then I kiss them and they are gone...

Ohioho · 2011-06-19T08:31:58+00:00

maybe you're a terrible kisser

LazlikesAlly · 2011-06-19T11:22:49+00:00

First of all, you're in a wheelchair. You're getting amazing success - don't degrade it by being so hard on yourself.

The problem here is that you identify yourself as this "forever alone wheel chair guy". Erase this fucking identity and start seeing yourself as a player that happens to be in a wheelchair. See yourself as the alpha-male that you are. Until you do this, people are going to see you the same way you see yourself; as a poor dude in a chode who's frustrated with only getting make-outs.

Keep the persistence coming. Be consistent. Break through this barrier - I promise you will see great success in the future. Be indifferent and don't cling onto the bitch just because she makes out with you. Grasp that "abundance" mentality.

SniffyCrayon · 2011-06-19T09:48:38+00:00

Being in a wheelchair shouldn't really stop you at all. I heard one of David DeAngelo's talks that had a guest speaker. His name is Sean something, he's in a wheelchair and has some bone density disease. He is still getting girls and it's really inspirational. I highly suggest you look him up and/or listen to the talk. It was on David D's "Approaching Women" audio thing. Hope this helps and hope everything works out for you.

Edit: Found a clip of him http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PuoXb5qMLuQ

amtlpua · 2011-06-19T19:11:54+00:00

Not directly related to your question but in case you haven't seen it (it's been on seddit): SimplePickup getting numbers in a wheelchair http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=64Ixzp94ksw

BalognaPogna · 2011-06-19T06:05:28+00:00

I'm not trying to be mean when I say this, but since you are in a wheelchair women see you differently. Even if you are an amazing person who deserves the best the world has to offer, once a girl starts to become connected they think about the relationship in the future and how it will expand. The chair clouds their feelings and makes them break the relationship off before they become even more attached. My advice would be to keep on keepin on. You'll find a keeper no doubt.hope that helps broski

jameskin · 2011-06-19T08:37:15+00:00

depends on what you say to her when you're kissing her/after kissing her. dont tell her she's the most beautiful girl in the world, that you like her soooo much etc. try to keep the mystery there; let her guess if you really like her, then she's more likely to stay with you. lean in sensually, lean back casually.

cryogen · 2011-06-19T04:26:37+00:00

Stop being an afc and develop more tension. Wait longer before you kiss her, you need more give and take.

Tradman · 2011-06-19T04:39:25+00:00

I know this is retarded but are you sure you have good breath(don't smoke, make sure you floss) and that you are a decent kisser?(don't use too much tongue too quickly, tease her a bit)

Other than that I'm not too sure, but I've had friends advise me not to k-close too quickly. You want to build up sexual tension.

TakesOneToNoOne · 2011-06-19T12:30:39+00:00

Maybe you're just a bad kisser?

indiechic · 2011-06-19T13:10:28+00:00

When do you kiss them? First date? Second date? After you are getting serious? If you are kissing her too early it may be turning her off, she may have kissed you because she felt pressured too but didn't really know you yet. Then she isn't calling you back because she is uncomfortable of what's to come.

bananatomato · 2011-06-19T16:42:47+00:00

Are you Russian? For some reason when I read the title I thought: 'this guy's Russian...'

Title	I am sick of tired of girls that act like they are into me and then I kiss them and they are gone...
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Upvotes	17
Comments	20
Date	June 19, 2011 3:15 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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