For many this will serve as an affirmation of what you already know but I’m posting it as anacdotal evidence anyway. Resently I was at a party having a good time. I start flirting with this one lady and being red pill aware (though still too bluepill) I’m slowly escalating with kino. I started moving closer, rubbing her arms and have moved away from the party. All set to escalate further when a wild alpha appears. He sits near us. Suddenly she ditches me and moves to him. He puts his hand right on her thigh and just smiles at me knowing he has it. ... ... So being a massive bluepill I asked her today what I could do to be more fun. Clearly she was more into him than me even though I thought I was making a connection when he appeared. (Yes I know I’m beta- but I figure I may as well gather intel). ... She honestly had no idea what I was talking about. She didn’t make a conscious logical decision to ditch me and go to him. She just did it by instinct (my words). She said she didn’t mean to ditch me but just saw him and went over. (Her unconscious mind was drawn to him). For me this was an interesting find. I don’t believe that she is lying to me either. She honestly didn’t think about it as a decision. I’m interested in feedback on this.