If a girl friend zones you what is the best way to go about it with her to make it as comfortable as possible for the both of us?

uututhrwa · 2012-11-24T15:12:38+00:00

How to get out of the "friendzone" fast

-pretend you are genuinely interested in her break ups or whatever and tha you'll try to talk through it, as if you are a good friend and want to know why she's upset

-right as she starts to tell her story progressively start taking a bored/"I find this funny" expression

-abruptly interrupt her as if whatever she was saying was painfully boring or better yet so unimportant you didn't even hear it

-be like "aaanyways who gives a fuck about that piece of shit, so they opened a Thai restaurant in [insert some area] have you ever eaten Thai?"

-if she tries to complain and change back the subjet you can get annoyed and take some poker face expression and add "lol why I am supposed to talk about your dumbass boyfriend?" or "cool story bro, he was probably gay who gives a fuck"

You are now out of the friendzone, there is 90% chance she'll try to avoid you, and 10% she'll be impressed, either way you don't really care.

HumanSockPuppet · 2012-11-24T21:24:33+00:00

You don't have to make it comfortable for her. That's not your job. Your job is to live your life to your preference.

derphurr · 2012-11-24T14:16:48+00:00

If the girl wanted to talk about it further in person

One thing I know for sure.. if she wants to discuss how she feels nothing but just friends... What man would volunteer for that conversation?

Just tell yourself "thank you very much, but I have enough friends". And be strong and realize you might think she is great, but you don't need her in your life.

If you want to sex up a girl, then don't be friends with them. It's unfair to them and you end up feeling bad and looking stupid or being taken advantage of. Just tell them you are sorry they feel that way, and walk over to the next attractive girl and say hi. No harm, no foul. They saved you some time by saying friends to you, they just took longer than the girl that immediately says no to your face.

2012-11-24T13:42:26+00:00

"also does it matter how deep I really am in the friendzone"

yes, cuz once someone starts feeling like a sibling to you (and vice versa), sexual attraction (normally?) goes out the window.

it's hard for me to really give advice, because i had fallen for a girl who i had been super good friends with after 2 years. i had watched her go through relationship after relationship, and when she would break down when they would end, it tore me up too just from seeing how it effected her. i then really tried to talk to her about how constant i've been in her life, and how i would really like to date her... she had made a pretty unrestrained 'ew' expression saying 'that's kind of weird'.

a month later she was dating someone else and got married 4 months later.

pretty weird.

so good luck. hope someone offers you better advice cuz i'm clueless.

playfulpenis · 2012-11-24T21:22:23+00:00

If you get friendzoned, there's a way to make things romantic and sexual again.

Act like a friend on the surface at first, but give off a sexual non-verbal vibe. Basically just apply game, but subtly at first. Gradually you'll be seen as a partner instead of a friend.

Title	If a girl friend zones you what is the best way to go about it with her to make it as comfortable as possible for the both of us?
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Date	November 24, 2012 1:34 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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