I've been reading Seddit for maybe a month or two, read a few PUAs like DeAngelo, or Wygant and tried to integrate it in my personality. I was wrong. More on that later.

My main goal last night was to be the Alpha of the group, so I asked a few friends (2 male friends, 1 female [HB8] ) to go out in a bar. I drove the female in my car, and the 2 other guys were in another car .We went to a cuban pub, a bit more classy than I'm used to, but no biggie. It was really crowded, so we had to sit with a guy alone. My female friend sat next to the guy, and I was in front of him.

I was really concentrated at first on being confident, funny, relaxed etc. We were having fun with just my group of friend in the beginning, I was then more relaxed, speaking/laughing loudly (not jerky) and the guy alone then opened my female friend (I wasn't planning on picking her up anyways, but I thought it was good practice to eliminate another Alpha). I think he noticed I was the alpha because I could tell he was constantly talking about me, pointing the finger at me when talking to her while I was having fun with the others.

I was trying to find the best way to "kill" him when he asked me some random questions :

Him : Bla bla bla

Me : Hmm, what, you're interested ?

him : no, I'm just chatting

I was really annoyed by the guy because he was half drunk. I cut him in the middle of his sentence to talk to a friend, showing him that I couldn't care less. so he resumed talking to my female friend. She was laughing to his jokes (prob not funny). At this point, I said to myself "wtf ?! I'm being amoged and she's falling for this guy's crappy game".

The guy then asked us what we were having, and offered a round on him. I was starting to understand that he wasn't gaming my [f]riend, but the other way around.

During the evening, I really could tell I was pissing the lonely guy off by my jokes, such as : "you know, if you can take it, I know a good spot near the bar where we could have fun" (BTW, This was wonderful, the look on his face was fucking priceless), the waiter was talking to him at another time, and I asked him if I could order, he said that doing his job is the priority, then having fun, and I just told him "so, what's up" to piss even more the lonely guy.

He offered to pay another round ( Wingwomen is paradise lads !) asking to my friends what they wanted to drink, but not me. The waiter came and the guy ordered the drinks for my friends ,I said to the waiter "and a black mojito for me", he laughed and understood I was desactivating the fake amog. From this til the end of the night, the waiter was really friendly with me, shaking my hand everytime he passed by. At this point, if it would've been just the two of us in a room (with lonely guy), he would've beat the crap out of me. (He was fucking big and maybe 40 y/o, I'm 21, and average)

Later, we ran into an old friends I hadn't seen in a couple of years, so he sat next to us with his friends (2 UB4). I could tell every girl there was checking me out, my female friend was asking me random questions when the lone guy was trying to talk to her. A guy came and asked me for a cigarette, he even said he would give me 1€ if I gave him 1 cigarette, so I said "Ok, for one euro, it'll do". I then thought that it was not what an alpha would do, that's what a jerk would do. So when he gave it to me I handed it back and said "it's ok, that was a joke man"

I then learned that she was indeed gaming him to pay for our drinks, MAGIC. I wasn't planning on gaming any girls last night, just being the Alpha for a change (Baby steps), and I never had so much fun.

From that night, I discovered I didn't need any books for that, being funny/alpha etc. It was all natural, I didn't use any techniques that I know. It's just what I was always TOO AFRAID to say, afraid that the guy would beat me (I have history on that, but doesn't take place on Seddit), afraid that a girl would think I'm a jerk. Yesterday, I was just NATURAL. And having such a wingwoman is effing priceless, if you can, get a pretty wingwoman !

Next step : Gaming girls.

Any thoughts on that Seddit ?

edit : I forgot to say that my [f]riend told us the guy made her a proposition about a sexual feet fetishism. Who says that to a girl he just met ?