How do you make sure girls know you are not looking for a LTR

SirInksALot · 2010-08-25T19:38:37+00:00

You tell her.

MrRisky · 2010-08-26T04:54:41+00:00

If it's an F-close within 24 hours, you have no obligation to say anything, she knows what's going on. She's not a delicate flower, she's a girl looking to get laid.

If you've been on a few dates, allude to it in casual conversation. ie "I'm really having fun, getting out and meeting new people".

If she asks directly, where is this going, tell her you're "not looking to rush into anything".

Be honest, but don't be an ass about it. Just saying "I'm not looking for an LTR" is prickish, because it makes the assumption that she is.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2010-08-26T09:33:05+00:00

I think Mystery said something to the effect of, "If you don't want a girlfriend, don't act like a boyfriend." It's not even going to come up unless you're leading her on about her importance in your life.

karmaval · 2010-08-25T21:32:47+00:00

Huh?

I thought you never bring this up and if she does you evade the question.

Not?

Title	How do you make sure girls know you are not looking for a LTR
Author	SanyoD
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	August 25, 2010 7:28 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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