I have a hot girl friend (just a friend) who is totally down with being my wing woman whenever I go out. How do I best utilize her?

CunningDingus · 2010-09-30T01:43:23+00:00

For me, I've been able to utilize a wing woman by having a wingman too (2 guys,1 girl), this way you can kind of use her as you need, but dump her back onto your wm. My opinion- To outsiders you should be blurring the lines of what's going on with her. That awkward body language when someones "just a friend" can be seen from a mile away.

Open your sets yourself and then introduce your ww. The way you introduce her is very important, your target will judge what relationship you have with her straight away. I would introduce her saying like "this is the gorgeous <name>", grab her by the side of the head a kiss her on the cheek. The girl will be thrown off a bit ("I wonder if they are seeing each other?") plus you'll come across a confident and awesome guy. Instantly makes you more attractive. She might even ask how do you know each other, don't respond with a definite "SHE'S JUST A FRIEND", keep it in the air, "we went to school together, she wants to have babies with me but I don't think she's worth much without this awesome figure<kino waist>" It can be completely stupid but it takes the focus off.

After that let the conversation flow. Keep up the playful kino with your ww but also start your kino routine with the target. If your ww is a bubbly girl she'll keep the vibe of the conversation up for you and fill in the gaps.

When it comes down to when you have to tell her your relationship with the ww, have a story like she's your best friend's girlfriend and your best friend bailed out at the last minute. That story has spice, because she'll start to wonder if there's something going on between you too.

I don't know if its what those "PUA gurus" would say, but this is my general approach.

Edit: Forgot to mention your wingwoman should be impressed with your confidence/showmanship, you might even spend the night with her. (I've hooked up with a previous LJBF in this scenario.)

strongoaktree · 2010-09-30T00:50:05+00:00

Approaches. Don't have her talk you up directly, else you run the risk of "why isn't she with him?"

icky_boo · 2010-09-30T09:43:30+00:00

Watch the ep of "how I met your mother" where Barney uses Robin as a Wing Woman, and do EVERYTHING barney does . Don't ask me which ep as I can't recall

philosarapter · 2010-09-30T14:00:50+00:00

Have her be very flirtatious and affectionate with you, while you act completely aloof. It works as immediate social proof. Keep it very ambigious and have her highlight your stories as you tell them by sayings like "omg that was so much fun", etc. Just as you would work with your male wingmen.

It works so well because they are expecting men to be working together to get them into bed, but don't expect any strategies from someone on their side of the gender line.

Also if she is very sociable, have her go behind enemy lines and make friends with the hottest set there while you go work on other sets, then a little while later she can yell your name out, run up give you a huge hug and she will introduce her new friends to you. "Omg this is the guy I was talking about!"

Enthusizer · 2010-09-30T01:30:06+00:00

She needs to give you lots of IOI and you need to not be impressed by them. That should work.

ArMcK · 2010-09-30T01:18:32+00:00

Keep us updated.

2010-09-30T21:06:15+00:00

I would think her most value would be in having her approach groups that are logistically difficult for you to approach. Then you walking up and being introduced. Hot girls will always be able to approach anyone they want at pretty much anytime. Bonus points if you can get her to say that you guys used to date but are now great friends.

I have never had this luxury so I am definitely jealous.

alphabetagammadelta · 2010-09-30T13:06:58+00:00

Anal.

jun2san · 2010-09-30T08:52:58+00:00

Screw her being your wing woman, why not make her your main woman?

Title	I have a hot girl friend (just a friend) who is totally down with being my wing woman whenever I go out. How do I best utilize her?
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Date	September 30, 2010 12:36 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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