Taller and bigger guys, how do you deal with your physical size intimidating females?

rmbarnes · 2010-10-24T04:20:15+00:00

I guess the grass is always greener on the other side. I am 5'6 and working out, but not quite built yet. What I would give to have our roles reversed. I've always noticed that women are naturally attracted to bigger taller guys. Use it to your advantage, and don't be self conscious about a gift like that.

xekul · 2010-10-24T04:40:30+00:00

Smile more and maybe angle your body a little so that you aren't talking to people head-on.

reyvehn · 2010-10-24T04:35:03+00:00

Chicks love tall built dudes. Approach as if this were always the case. You're a goddamn gift to the average female. Act like it.

digitalbuzz · 2010-10-24T04:45:56+00:00

Just smile and keep a friendly attitude. One technique I heard of is "smiling with your eyes" That is, the expression your eyes convey. -5'7" guy who has former Army buds who look like linemen.

LetMeExplain · 2010-10-24T04:51:47+00:00

Like so

But in all seriousness, intimidation has to do with more than just body type. Lots of factors like tone of voice, posture, etc. Be mindful of someones personal space, be courteous when you speak, watch your posture so that you aren't looming over someone.

Specifically, what makes you think that you are intimidating to the opposite sex, could you site specific examples?

VampireSlayer · 2010-10-24T18:05:38+00:00

At 5'7 I'll never understand why there are tall guys who complain, I can understand it being harder to gain rapport because your not around their height. But that's instance attraction, I constantly see super tall ass dudes who look like the stereotypical nerd surrounded by hot girls.

strongoaktree · 2010-10-24T20:45:02+00:00

Wear clothes that are stylish, but play down physical features. Baggier clothes, that fit.

I have a relatively small build. I'm 5'9'', 145 lbs, and build like a runner. While having little upper body mass, I wear Small T-shirts that fit tight to give the illusion of be being bigger.

I'm sure you can manipulate the way you wear clothes to make you look less threatening.

You could go to a department store, and ask the young women there to for advice on clothes to help you look less intimidating. This would be a perfect time to game them aswell.

NitsujTPU · 2010-10-24T06:00:00+00:00

Come the hell on, dude. You can be a total dork and pick up girls if you look like that.

2010-10-24T04:19:01+00:00

Who cares.

Title	Taller and bigger guys, how do you deal with your physical size intimidating females?
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Date	October 24, 2010 4:09 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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