I started out in game just under a year ago. Over the past year I have seen my confidence increase dramatically, and the same has happened to my success rate when it comes to bedding women. If I were to continue to learn & practice PUA, I'm sure the number of lays I could rack up over the next few years would be immense, and my social confidence would rise to freaky levels.

As many people on here may have realised, game isn't actually about girls at all. It's about you and improving yourself and becoming the best possible man you can be. That's a big thing these days as the western world seems to be filled with many spineless maginas.

The thing is one of my most recent fcloses has just managed to lock me down into an LTR. She has found out about me going out sarging, and needless to say she wants that to stop.

This leads me to a dilemma. I want to continue improving myself and my confidence / social life using game. The cold approach still scares me and I'd like to get to a point where it doesn't. Many of the people are know in this city come from the PUA community. On the other hand I do like this girl, and she has nice tits.

How can I still work on the self improvement / social growth /confidence side of game without sarging (given that the biggest confidence boost comes from cold approaching)?