I don't have much in common with either of these girls except us being around the same age and working in same building.

Girl A - 5 Girl B - 8

Girl A left note saying she was interested in me. Not attracted to her physically. Will probably just tell her I have rules about working and relationships, and tell her maybe we should get to know each other first over coffee sometime. Furthermore I'm interested in girl B, so i took picture of note which says along the lines ..if u like me this is where i am .. should I show girl B and ask her how I handle the situation with girl A? This will 1. Make her feel like she is a good advice giver? 2. Show I am able to get girls, and don't just jump on any females tail. And say like 'Hey b, This girl left this note in my office, I really dont date at work, how would u handle this situation'

Would something like this show abundance or is it try hard?

What I ended up doing

So what I did was say to B - Hey I need your advice! walks away to do my job ...I Come back 3 mins later

  • me:'yo i need some advice' ... 'your single right?' ... she smiles

  • her:'no, im engaged, points at ring'

  • me:'oh dayummm i didn't even no that.. alright listen (moved on to be not reactive) i need your advice'

  • her: 'awww do you have girl troubles?' (smiling) ..

  • me: ive never had girl problems smiles cockily (is that a word?)

  • her:ok so whats up (i swear she never stopped smiling)

  • me:so this girl left a note on my desk rolls eyes

  • her: did she say she liked you or uh????

  • me:well to say the least she said she liked me, you see i dont date girls i work with

  • her:THAT A GOOD RULE (all happy) ..(shes gets SOOO curious)what did it say? what is long? ..

she talks for like 20 mins, i try and listen and focus on eye contact, she laughed the entire time with a smile from ear to ear, called me cute and handsome a few times and I managed to walk away with when the convo was at a high - David Wygant style.