Any good guides on how to flirt and being playful?

IrLoserBoy · 2011-02-04T22:49:52+00:00

do not compliment her.

tease her
make fun of her
answer with bullshit ("what do you do for a living?", "i'm unemployed and homeless, you?"). i got laid with this one.
do not lean in
do not justify or explain yourself
do not apologize
be irrationally self-confident (be cocky, but funny - see DeAngelo's work)
don't ask too many questions
do not self-deprecate much
accuse her falsely of things (like oh, i heard you were a lush...)
"agree and amplify", this is a technique from Improv. Never say no or disagree, play along. see Roissy's "Agree and Amplify" post

also, read this

I am an average guy, and have slept with 85+ women, including actresses, models, flight attendants, waitresses. I am currently in an LTR with a smart beautiful woman that loves me.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-05T01:43:38+00:00

You might like the SIRC Guide to Flirting. It's a publication from a sociology research group but is mostly a practical how-to document.

mnOne · 2011-02-05T16:51:16+00:00

Alright, a nice tip might be to imagine you have just won the lottery - how would you talk to people then, huh?

skiman101 · 2011-02-04T22:03:05+00:00

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Title	Any good guides on how to flirt and being playful?
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Date	February 4, 2011 9:31 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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