Walked up to girl, got number, got coffee.....now wtf?

philosarapter · 2011-02-04T15:21:48+00:00

I tend to try to bang them on the second date. But everyone works differently.

So I would have her over for a movie, maybe cook her some dinner, play a game that involves us getting naked... have a few hours of sex and then kick her out so that I can play some world of warcraft.

cheddarchexmix · 2011-02-04T03:53:50+00:00

Try checking out this post, it should help. Do NOT ever ask a girl out for a movie as an early date, that's well-covered on Seddit.

on_the_dl · 2011-02-04T07:20:12+00:00

BTW, maybe try a more interesting date idea? Art museum or music show then later get ice cream right outside, walk through the park with it, feed the ducks in the lake, etc. Like a series of interesting things to do together instead of just coffee or just movie.

Of course, you don't tell her that you've got it all planned out. That would be try-hard. Just mention the first location.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-04T03:31:09+00:00

When your get interrupted by the girl's friend, your set is totally dead in the water. They will ignore you and forget you're even there. Use the classic neg, "Aren't you going to introduce me to your friend? That's what polite people do."

Just keep going, you might want another coffee meetup but try to plan a few "mini-dates" that can follow. You should bounce to a few different activities, so she feels more familiar with you, like she's been on a week's worth of dates.

FaceNibbler · 2011-02-04T04:33:53+00:00

thank you both

heightmatters · 2011-02-04T09:23:00+00:00

What do you want from this girl? That's the first question you need to ask yourself.

yellowsayshello · 2011-02-04T09:39:33+00:00

Let's say you get interrupted by her friend again, remember all your gaming techniques, try to get your target to grab your attention.

So with that in mind, why not focus your attention on her friend, trying to get to know her better, while all the entire time you ignore the target with small negs here and there?

WhiteTiger10 · 2011-02-09T11:33:22+00:00

just get to know her first before you try to "date" her, what are you goals here: bed her, or get to know her?

Title	Walked up to girl, got number, got coffee.....now wtf?
Author	FaceNibbler
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	February 4, 2011 3:09 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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