Okay, so I have this one girl set up for a date on Saturday and during our text conversation last night, she mentions that her Friday night got freed up so she asked if I would like to get together tonight (friday) instead of tomorrow night. I told her that I had plans already - I'm just having dinner with family and will probably be free after 9.

Now, during this conversation, I get a text from another girl I had forgotten about a week ago just out of the blue. She asks me what I'm doing this weekend and I tell her that I am taken Saturday and Sunday, but I can probably do late Friday night. She says she has plans Friday, so I tell her this:

ME: "I'll let you know if my plans change this weekend. You can be my #1 back-up ;) "

HER: "I dont like being a back up. that doesn't sound very nice"

ME: "Sure I'd like to spend my weekend with ya, but I've already made other plans with other people. I keep my obligations, but sometimes the plans don't work out. I'm just promising that I will be thinking about you before anyone else. Does that sound better?"

HER: Yes! Much nicer. Now I feel special

ME: My time is valuable to me. I don't waste it with girls who aren't special. ;)

Anyway, so here's my question: I have the possibility of moving my Saturday night date to Friday night, which would not include us eating, but it frees up my Saturday night for the possiblity of this second girl filling in for the night.

Seddit, any suggestions on how I should play this? I am fairly confident if I talk to both of them before this afternoon that I could get the Saturday girl moved to friday and this 2nd girl on Saturday.

EDIT Girl 1 is now moved to tonight, Friday. Girl 2 is slotted into tomorrow night, Saturday and I've got a solid F-close set up on Sunday! :D

Here's how the convo went with Girl 2 today:

ME: Hey so my saturday is still up in the air. I might be free, it seems but I need more info. Would you still be down to go out if I'm available?

HER: Need more info?

HER: I thought it was your friday that was open?

ME: Well, the Saturday may be open. I am still waiting on my ftriend to get back to me. We were going to (city) Sat, but we may have to go a day early.

HER: Ooh, something fun in (city)?

HER: I'm ready to start drinking.

ME: Ha. yes and no. So, can you wait until saturday to get drunk with me? I'll let you know hopefully by this afternoon.

ME: (20 minutes later) or do I have to go with my #2 Back-up? ;)

HER: hahahahah. you're such a badass.

ME: I didn't read "yes" or "no".

HER: I didn't hear a proposition of what to do

ME: I figured I'd take you to McDonald's and get you a big mac, then we'd spend the rest of the night trying to find four-leaf clovers in the dark.

HER: That may be the most romantic evening I've ever had.

ME: I'm so sorry for you... haha. Let me handle the details. All you gotta worry about is looking sexy. I just wanna know if you're down, yes or no?

ME: (40 minutes later) I didn't realize that question needed so much contemplation. I thought it was easy. haha.

HER: hahahah. sorry, I was shopping and got wrapped up

ME: Typical girl. I'm gonna remember that, because I'm gonna need new clothes soon and I'm a terrible shopper (leaves it open for a mall-date). You still didin't give me an answer on Saturday.

HER: Alright yes.

ME: Good. I've got a bit of work to do in the next hour before I leave work. I'll call you later with an update, but from his texts it looks like we're going tonight.

EDIT 2 So, I didn't close at all with Girl 1, but she's obviously very different from any girl I've gone after before. She's one of those intellectuals who like to take things slow and keep their boundaries. haha. It's pretty sad that although I escalated kino as much as I could, the best I could do was having her holding and fondling my hand on the car ride back from the bar and me resting my hand on her thigh. haha. Not to say that my game wasn't good, it was just not your normal "seduction". Like I previously thought, this girl is GF material.