Hey guys, been lurking here for a few months now, figured it's about time I posted something and I figured an F-close should start things off with a bang! Me: 22 years old, Asian, 5"7, athletic, just finished uni.

The Meet

Went to a West Side bar near a local university with my buddy and the place was almost empty when we walked in. Spotted two girls (HB 6 and HB 5) alone looking real bored at the bar but ignored them initially by grabbing drinks and small talking with each other for a bit right beside the girls. HB6 is a brunette has a very pretty face and beautiful green eyes but a few extra pounds. She could easily be a HB 8 if she made an effort to work out.

Naturally, I approached HB 6 out of habbit with the "you guys look like you're having soooo much fun" sarcastic opener (Roosh) and hooked immediately. Transitioned with observation and compliment / gentle tease about her jade ear ring, and was observant by noticing she was watching hockey highlights earlier on the bar TV. Found out she was into hockey and DHV'ed by showing her pictures of Round 1 games I went to on my Iphone. She asks for my name (IOI) and we build rapport talking about travel.

Introduced buddy to wing her friend HB5. Kept high energy and pumped up the state of my girl. Lead her to the dance floor and we danced for a bit by ourselves but had a great time. Girls will always feed off your energy. Took a "break" and lead her to a couch behind where her friend was sitting on a stool, which is a great logistical choice since it was more discrete and easier to physically escalate.

Built more comfort and K-closed. Rinse repeat with another couple and just enjoyed the moment on the dance floor and made-out, grabbed waters at bar and went back to couch. Found out she was from the suburbs here for the weekend for a job interview while staying at her friend's place and I asked about logistics possibly for SNL but realized it wasn't possible. Made out and built deep connection by talking about our aspirations, nerdy hobbies etc.

She hints that I should take her number by saying she noticed I also have an Iphone and I oblige. Wasn't really thinking about # closing her which allowed me to be in the moment and be outcome independent in the entire interaction. Used great humour and kept it light throughout...tentatively set up date for next day. Joked that we would climb trees, swing on swings and drink Kool-aid (Cajun) and she's laughing. Got her friend and my buddy to dance too and we parted ways soon after at the bar as she had to wake up early.

I bounced with my buddy to another bar nearby with way better talent but this was 1am and everyone was paired off or heading home. I put in 3 approaches and none of them stick - no biggie. The bar closes at 2am and we decide to call it a night.

Day 2

Saturday night - settled on a great choice on inviting her out to watch the hockey game at an Irish pub with my friends (instead of day time hangout) - social proof and DHV as social leader and social hub. Also hit safety button as I had female friends there. She got dropped off and when she came in saw me talking to a female friend but I immediately gave her a hug and introduced her.

Kept a laid back and chill vibe and gave her attention in doses. Never gave her my undivided attention - kept chatting with my own friends and watching the game. Kept a great frame as she was always wanting more of my attention (Race de Priest). She was petting me pretty hard and I reciprocated but kept it very light to avoid too much PDA. Provided a fun atmosphere and emotional roller coaster of watching the game together. I could tell from her body language she was digging me pretty hard at this point so I suggested we bounce (isolate + venue change!) for dessert after the game was over and she agreed. I paid for our drinks and nachos without making it a big deal. I made sure to give all my friends hugs and handshakes before we left just to solidify the social proof.

Took her down the cobbled streets of the "hipster / upscale" part of town to another pub / restaurant and got a booth for dessert. Sat side by side, built more comfort, ran some vulnerability game with my childhood story of accidentally booting a girl I had a crush on in the face with a soccer ball, ran Style's rings routine and discussed nerdy topics like Dean Koontz and zombie apocalypses. This girl is remarkably intelligent and likes a lot of the same books and TV shows as me and I'm really enjoying her company. Shared dessert and did some light petting and kissing. Asked her which type of wine she liked and tell her that I have a Goosebumps collection and she's giggling a lot. Told her we should polish off a bottle of red wine sitting in my fridge and check out my Goosebumps collection. She laughs and agrees - it is so ON. She grabs the bill and we head out briefly to walk around the Waterfront to watch the skyline across the inlet before grabbing my car and back to my place.

Got her to take her shoes and jacket off, gave her a tour of the pad including my library of books, put on some solid "moodlist" music and we both sat on the couch for some red wine. I begin the kino-escalation ladder and things are getting heavy. I suggest we "get more comfortable" by leading her to the bedroom . Full close, no LMR, we stay up all night, she tells me I'm her first this year, watch a movie afterward, fool around some more, grab breakfast and I drop her off. This could potentially be a mistake as I was doing too much boyfriend stuff and not really setting the expectation that this was casual except for telling her that we should just "enjoy the moment." She might think this is more of a romantic thing so I definitely need to reset that frame next time we hang out. Otherwise this is definitely a peak experience in my journey and it only gets better from here!

TL;DR met an HB6 brunette (8 incl personality!) at a bar, danced and made out, set up day 2 next day to hang with me and friends, venue change and isolated, took her back to my place, ran solid game the whole way - first girl I fully closed since learning and incorporating Game!