Got a date with kinda cute but chubby girl, don't feel motivated to go. What should I do?

StormTAG · 2011-08-19T21:11:09+00:00

You made a promise? Be a man and stick to your promises. Go. Have fun. See what happens.

BarnabyJonze · 2011-08-19T21:19:48+00:00

Do you ever look back fondly at the times you didn't do something? Just go for it, she might be amazing!

sleepingwithsirens · 2011-08-20T00:15:28+00:00

You don't have to marry her. Just go and have fun. If you get into the LBF zone then even better. You can meet all her girlfriends. Don't stand someone up, ever. As other people have commented that sucks.

I saw an article the other day you should read. Does she pass your boner test? If she does then fuckall what everyone else thinks.

vampyprincess88 · 2011-08-19T20:48:52+00:00

Go, you may have fun. Are you unmotivated because she is chubby? And if you don't know if you are interested.. Why did you make the date in the first place?

blitzik · 2011-08-19T21:11:39+00:00

take her to the gym

2011-08-20T04:47:26+00:00

If you have a date, then thats means you were motivated at some point. Don't be a flake, just go.

bcktth · 2011-08-19T21:34:33+00:00

Maybe not go out with people for the sake of seeing it as a medal of honor. Dealing with other people's feelings and emotions. Come on, man.

2011-08-20T04:05:00+00:00

Go anyway.

clutchPUA · 2011-08-19T22:56:38+00:00

look did you say a date? if you didn't then you make it what you want to be. If you don't like her, maybe someone else at a bar will. Take her for a good night out, friendzone her...you never know what doors that will open up for you.

nothereforlong · 2011-08-20T05:12:51+00:00

Just curious how the date came about. If you thought you weren't attracted when you set it up, avoid doing that in the future.

Spurnout · 2011-08-21T06:42:13+00:00

Go and have fun and friend zone her.

BarnabyJonze · 2011-08-22T04:58:25+00:00

Did you end up going?

frasier_crane · 2011-08-19T20:58:22+00:00

Go. Have sexy night. Never call again.

Alioshya · 2011-08-19T22:20:04+00:00

How superficial can you be?! Perhaps she is super nice, funny, perhaps you discover you´ve got the same interests... doesn´t that count more than her looks?

2011-08-20T02:58:41+00:00

place a paperbag over your head and avoid areas where you think your friends might be

johnny878 · 2011-08-19T21:41:43+00:00

if you dont have any mutual friends, id just flake. dont stand her up though. if this is the first date and you have no motivation, wait 3 dates in...

Title	Got a date with kinda cute but chubby girl, don't feel motivated to go. What should I do?
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Date	August 19, 2011 8:45 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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