I can't stop or ignore it....

puaCurveBall · 2011-09-28T06:53:16+00:00

Kids do a lot of crazy things in highschool and before. Yes BJ's happened in grade school and 3somes happened in HS.

One ex gf had a group of like 9 people, half guys half girls that all had sex together(though mostly 1on1 or 3some), it was like a game could go home with different boy each night and all talked about it afterwards.

They hardly had it "figured out", they are stupid kids trying to act like adults and blinded by hormones / pleasure.

Edit: Did you have an actual question? or just wanted to know that really happens?

frogma · 2011-09-28T13:43:07+00:00

Dude I lost my virginity at 17 and that was through sheer luck. It wasn't really till college that I started having real sexual experience, and now I'm in a better spot than pretty much everyone I know. Who cares what other people experienced?

First, you gotta fix your mindset. Sex isn't gonna validate you. If you're looking for validation from sex, you're gonna be depressed and negative whenever you're not getting any. In turn, you'll be less attractive and less likely to get any. It's a cycle.

Second, I'd guess anyone who has sexual experience (beyond blowjobs and shit) in high school is an exception to the rule. Just like NFL players are exceptions to the rule. You're probably never gonna be in the NFL, so don't worry about it.

I know a kid who had a threesome freshman year of high school with these two really hot girls. That was awesome, and everyone was envious of the guy. He's still really popular and getting tons of pussy. Just because he's so successful doesn't mean I'm a loser. If I believed that, I'd probably have a pretty negative outlook overall, and be less likely to have success myself. Instead, I don't worry about him, because he isn't me.

"Everyone's life follows a different path" And what's that supposed to mean? What kind of placebo feel good shit is that? Oh yeah. We all follow a different path. Oh yeah, everyone else gets the life they want and I'm left sitting in the dust with my hand down my pants.

Have you actually met people in the real world, or are you basing this thought off the crazy shit you've seen on reddit? Most people lead shitty, boring lives. Other people are outliers. Are you also pissed off that you're not a celebrity making millions of dollars right now?

Read through the sidebar if you haven't. Read about inner game and shit. I'd be willing to bet a million bucks that you don't approach girls on a daily basis, and that's gonna hold you back just as much as your negative thoughts. If you do start approaching a lot, and fix your negative mindset, you'll start having more success. That might not mean crazy orgies or anything, but it's a step in the right direction.

Title	I can't stop or ignore it....
Author	IneedHelpNowPlease
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	September 28, 2011 6:50 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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