New in town, 27 years old guy, right next to a college campus. Honestly, how do I meet people without being creepy?

eskachig · 2011-10-12T05:57:16+00:00

You're really not out of any bracket...I knew a supremely hot 19 yr old college girl who was dating a 30 yr old dude who didn't even live in town. And she was one of many. A lot of them like older guys, and how are they gonna know how old are you anyway?

I'm 25, my friend is 26, and he often says he's a college student, though it isn't true. Who cares? if you're just hooking up with her once, you can say whatever you want.

As for me, I don't lie (afraid I'm gonna get caught in it, plus just don't see the need) and I hook up with college girls from time to time. If you look good and act aggressive, you can def pull it off.

As for meeting them, go to the bars or crash a house party. You can just walk into a lot of parties. One good tactic is to meet some ppl outside smoking, chat them up, ask who they're here with, then repeat the name if anyone inside asks you who you know. Or just walk in, whatever. And the youngest girls (18-20) are at the house parties generally, since they can't legally hit the bars.

You're def right on not just running up on some girl during the day on campus. Seems like college chicks are especially wary of "stalkers" and whatever. Don't ask me why, but it's a thing with them. Even the ugly ones. ;)

And you can just drink water at the bars. I usually do. Costs you nothing and makes zero difference. If anyone asks why you're not drinking, just say you pre-gamed a lot at your house and don't want to get too plastered. Entirely believable (and in my case, usually true).

And finally, don't fixate on college girls. There will be tons of girls around who aren't in college. Go after them too. Hey, I'd like to sleep with an 18 yr old every time, but sometimes you wind up with a 28 yr old who isn't in college. So what? Bring her home and have a good time. You'll grab a college girl too now and then if you hit on lots of girls.

frogma · 2011-10-12T05:28:40+00:00

So here's what's going on: You'd like to date college girls but the fact that you're a teacher makes it weird.

The remedy: Stop thinking of yourself as a teacher. You're 27 man! That's like prime real estate for most college-aged girls. They'd love that.

To meet them, I'd still recommend what these other guys said- if you're not into drinking (though I don't see why not), just don't drink when you're at the bars.

Otherwise, meet them the same way I do/did- go around the quad and talk to people, start up soccer/football/volleyball games. Invite 20 girls to play volleyball with you, and you're guaranteed that some will show up. Invite some guys too. Once you've got em there and you show em how cool you are, invite em to a party- or just to go back to your place. It's cool because they've already had a chance to get to know you, and there's no pressure.

You have some inner game issues to deal with- mainly "I can't get (certain subset of girls) because I'm (certain subset of guy)." Get over that shit. Forget about it.

bikebrains · 2011-10-13T01:30:07+00:00

Volunteer! Find something you're interested in and volunteer. You'll meet people just like you with similar interests, as a rule. It's a great excuse to get to know people and make friends. It also happens to be a great way to meet girls, since most volunteers are female.

TosserAwaySoon · 2011-10-12T13:27:06+00:00

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testmypatience · 2011-10-12T04:34:50+00:00

When I go to bars I drink soda pop. You don't have to drink alcohol. Just curious but why don't you drink? Do you mean at all?

TosserAwaySoon · 2011-10-12T05:32:22+00:00

A lawyer I know goes to a college campus to eat at the cafeteria. He is an old man and does it because he genuinely enjoys their food, but hes been opened up by tons of people.

disarm · 2011-10-12T07:51:22+00:00

Easiest is bars. Generally all age groups are welcome. I would say going on the college campus is a bit difficult, you should have a somewhat legitimate reason if they ask why you're there like 'I use the gym because it's nearby and I like the surrounding' or 'I'm taking some classes here for fun' etc... You can't just say 'I like to hang around here to meet people' because that might come off as a bit weird.

dj_bizarro · 2011-10-13T01:20:03+00:00

To the point. If you expect to look creepy, you will look creepy. So get that shit out of your head.

TosserAwaySoon · 2011-10-13T02:58:22+00:00

I can relate. I live in a college town and today hit on a girl outside Starbucks. Turns out she's a freshman. I'm 43. Fuck!

That said, I didn't feel creepy and she didn't seem creeped out.

Also, I hooked up with a 21 yo last Halloween and age was not an issue.

SexCupid · 2011-10-12T05:19:34+00:00

I'm 33, and I live close to two college campuses. While it's not a weekly deal, I get to pull college girls every now and then. And I know my success rate would be much higher should I set out to really improve my game (but life commitments get in the way). Start with bars. Find buddies your age. Then, find even more buddies. At some point, a buddy of a buddy will introduce you to the college house party life.

You could also check the college's events page and go to those that interest you.

sillymallard · 2011-10-12T04:46:46+00:00

Go to bars. Drink water. When you're at a bar, everyone is over 21, and there you go. Also, try going to grocery stores during the mornings on weekends. The people there are usually families and yuppies who have their shit together (i.e. not college kids).

maxormis · 2011-10-12T06:01:30+00:00

Just pretend to yourself that you're studying there. Do some easy approaches asking for the time or the way. Check out the library. Make yourself at home there like it would be your first day of studying. Talk to everyone not just the girls. Maybe there are some activities going on that you can join. Also check for parties.

crazyfiction · 2011-10-12T11:23:50+00:00

Give this a read.

TosserAwaySoon · 2011-10-13T03:11:53+00:00

Play it up.

2011-10-12T19:52:31+00:00

You use the search bar.

haiku_from_nantucket · 2011-10-12T04:56:55+00:00

Have you considered moving to a place with scenery that inspires your higher nature?

In your title, you mention "creepy" as a concern, so perhaps you might want to consider which of these items makes an otherwise wholesome list scream "creepy":

27 years old
Happens to live next to a campus with fun people
Wants to meet some fun people and hang out
Posts the question to a Reddit called "seduction"

The longer you think about seducing college girls, the closer you get to making a really big mistake, and in the process messing up some promising young lady's life.

Find someone your own age to date. Try match.com or eharmony or one of the others. From friends, I know only of the greatest successes with these sites.

Title	New in town, 27 years old guy, right next to a college campus. Honestly, how do I meet people without being creepy?
Author	TosserAwaySoon
Upvotes	16
Comments	47
Date	October 12, 2011 3:59 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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