[FR] From OkCupid to my bed, here's how I did it (with pictures)

AlwaysOnTheLookout · 2011-10-14T07:27:30+00:00

I personally don't think its cool that you're posting a pic of a girl on /r/seduction w/o her permission.

FR is good and thanks for posting it, but violating someone's privacy is another matter.

Furthermore, the fact that I'm the first person to point this out sucks even more. I guess being a genteleman isn't a part of the deal.

PyouA · 2011-10-14T04:33:36+00:00

You better hope Elizabeth doesn't read /r/seduction.

I play the same card with LMR. I've found that it works about 80% of the time and you end up giving up first date sex for regular sex later on. This was tough when the girl was my only potential go-to at the time, but once you have two or three it doesn't really matter and is well worth it. With the other 20% who give me LMR heavy on the 2nd time as well, I usually make one last ditch plow effort and if that doesn't work then I pull the plug (go totally distant) and say something along the lines of, "I really like you a lot, but I'm really not in a position where I'm willing to have a non-sexual relationship with someone, I hope you understand."

...has yet to fail me

Couple of questions on OKCupid as I have recently moved to a different city and am debating using it to supplement regular game. Have you had much success beyond this interaction? Also I did a quick search a while back and didn't find too many attractive girls in my age range (23) - has this been a problem for you? I'd love to hear any additional input you have about OKCupid specifically.

Nice FR though.

Enthusizer · 2011-10-14T12:33:50+00:00

Bad excuse. You always need to play to win.

sillymallard · 2011-10-14T15:08:13+00:00

Dude, not cool. Take her picture down. Now.

2011-10-14T04:40:21+00:00

Oh man you sorta blew it. "I don't know if we should have sex on the first date" is really a weak protest versus 'we can't have sex.' You should have used LMR busting strategies. That would have been an easy one to push through. She wanted to fuck. Oh well..... Also, don't ask permission to kiss her, just do it.

poopdeck · 2011-10-14T13:46:22+00:00

Are you always that forward on OKCupid correspondence? Or do you normally need to build more comfort/rapport before going in for the meetup?

Centuri0n- · 2011-10-14T15:58:51+00:00

Wtf those text messages were on bodybuilding misc forum.

Do you even lift?

skepticalhippo.jpeg

Fudgeworth · 2011-10-14T05:50:52+00:00

Excellent post. Love your idea to post less text, more audio and pictures.

Title	[FR] From OkCupid to my bed, here's how I did it (with pictures)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	October 13, 2011 9:12 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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