My thoughts on my week - 16 number closes. 3 KCloses. 1 Fclosed. Day 2's lining up.

frogma · 2011-10-24T14:26:17+00:00

I'm gonna go through this line by line to point out all the shit you did right (which was most things IMO- welcome to my world).

& closing as many phone numbers as I could

Not important, but this is something you can tweak a bit and get different results. For example, if your goal was simply "start talking," it'd open you up to new experiences without pressuring you into anything. Likewise, if you don't mind the pressure, your goal might as well be to fuck as many girls as possible, since the numbers are gonna be flaky and generally unreliable.

I think it was a great experience but it is not the most sustainable lifestyle (my old lifestyle). I spent between $40 & $150 per night on drinks + smoked 3 packets of ciggeretts (I ONLY smoke these when I'm drinking) etc. I woke up feeling pretty average after the first couple nights and then I would wake up fine but end up really tired by the end of the day.

I feel you here. I basically do the same shit when I'm partying. And I actually wouldn't just dismiss it. You'll notice the difference when you start getting laid consistently- it becomes a whole different ballgame, where you're not just laying there the next morning wondering why you spent so much money and did whatever shit. Instead, you're laying next to a girl (or still fucking her from the night before), and you know exactly why you put in the effort, and you don't regret it. The lifestyle definitely isn't sustainable if you don't have enough money, but instead of foregoing the lifestyle, you should find ways to spend less money (but still do the same shit).

I started to really not give a shit about the girls I was talking to. I got bored pretty quickly and started finding more ammusment in my blowouts & stupid things that I could say than actually getting the close.

Beautiful. That's what I do. Just keep in mind that if you actually want sex on a given night, it's gotta be with someone, so you can't necessarily just joke around with 50 different girls (you actually can if you want, but if it's not leading to sex with any of them, you still have things to work on).

I almost got into a fight for hitting on a guys girlfriend.

Doesn't matter. It's inevitable.

I tried to pickup girls multiple times & had forgotten their names.

If you look back on some older (but semi-recent) posts of mine, you'll see what I have to say about this. First off, most people forget your name. Most people aren't good with names. The fact that you can remember a girl's name is great in the right circumstances, but dude, if you forget her name, don't try to apologize or anything. If anything, make it into a joke and tell her how insignificant she is to you (as a joke). As long as you don't consider it a big deal, the girl's not gonna give a shit if you forgot her name. I forget most people's names within minutes, and sometimes I'll go over and ask them to repeat it. Other times, I just don't care at all (and nobody really does), so if a girl says shit about it, I take it as an opportunity to joke around and get some banter going. It's much more effective than remembering her name.

but I think drinking is something I will pull mostly on DAY2's ;) ;)

If that's what you wanna do, go for it. For me, I get laid enough on my nights out when I'm partying, so day game is basically an afterthought. I still talk to girls and shit whenever I'm out during the day, but I usually don't make an effort to escalate it unless I want to invite them to a party or something like that. Otherwise, I just party on the weekends, get drunk, and get laid about half the time. In the past half-year or so, I think there's only been a couple nights where I didn't at least make out with a girl or two. I'm not saying that should be your goal or anything, just saying that if something works, don't "fix" it. Add to it if you want, but don't just assume it's bad thing just because of the so-so results you've gotten. If you're getting iffy results, there's probably something you can do to change it.

choc_is_back · 2011-10-24T14:54:26+00:00

Haha, love this experiment! You sound way more rock'n roll than most of the over-theoreticizing guys in here, way to go all out :-)

I laughed with the 'I think I Kclosed 3 girls, now that's my style! I also recognize myself a lot in this:

started finding more ammusment in my blowouts & stupid things that I could say than actually getting the close

Being able to think like this is a sign you've reached the ultimate social don't give a fuckery that is so powerful when it comes to girls and life in general.

Keep on living the good life while you can as often as you can, I see many people who have a blast in this way (including me, though I'm not really the club type generally), but somehow they all end up stopping doing it at a certain age, which kinda freaks me out to be honest...

You seem like the kinda guy I'd love to have a beer with, but I'm afraid we're on other continents...

stonedstack · 2011-10-24T18:05:35+00:00

Personally I'm against the use of alcohol because you won't learn anything, you're not facing your fears and you aren't making any real deep level identity changes. I've had a lot of successes on alcohol and then I decided to cut it out and it was like I was starting all over again, my fears never really went away, they were just suppressed.

Aside from that, awesome post, and I'm really interested in the report on ratios!

alphawolf9999 · 2011-10-25T09:21:11+00:00

I go out and order water or a beer at dive bars. This helps me learn to control my state without relying on alcohol. And, my cost for pickup = $0 + gas money.

Try it - if you do this 7 times a week, and break through your AA every time, you'll feel like a God by the end of the week :)

nightmare_scenario · 2011-10-25T03:32:57+00:00

"I tried to pickup girls multiple times & had forgotten their names"

Haha this happens to me 1/2 the time I go to this one place that I frequent. I hit on this same fucking girl at some point in the night, and she's like "yeah, we've met." And I never remember. It's happened 3-4 times. I have her face fucking burned in my mind so it doesn't happen again, haha. She's nice about it though.

I hope she gets a good laugh out of it at least. I am always a little embarrassed, but whaddya gonna do.

Nice work, but damn son, that's gonna be hard on your body if you keep at it. I do 3 nights a week every week and that's rough enough.

Title	My thoughts on my week - 16 number closes. 3 KCloses. 1 Fclosed. Day 2's lining up.
Author	stonedstack
Upvotes	15
Comments	19
Date	October 24, 2011 1:08 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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