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[–]bolxrex 6 points7 points8 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How Do You "Not Care"
Getting rejected a lot helps. Develop that thick skin. Rejection is the pavement on the road of abundance.
[–]rogue_ger 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
agreed. failing is the best way to learn how to succeed.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Years and years of getting shit on and feeling like shit
eventually you just get tired of it and block it out
[–]nycprowl 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
story of my life. I was just listening to something from RSD on this today. Everyone is great with girls they don't give a fuck about. While I need to practice what I preach, the trick is to realize that they are no better than you. You are trying to entertain them, hoping to continue the conversation by teasing.
You(and me) have to go talk to girls and not give a shit if they walk off or anything. So they're pretty. Big deal. Looks fade, and deep down they have their insecurities, flaws, etc. Like every other human on this little rock we call earth.
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[–]nycprowl 4 points5 points6 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're doing it wrong. You're looking at women as LESS than you if that is the case. When you meet another dude, I'm assuming you just talk to him right? No bullshit, no judging... just talking... can't the same be done for women?
Equals. not better. not worse.
[–]revbobdobbs 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's not that you don't see them people.
It's that you become detached from outcome.
This has been starting to happen to me. I attempt a seduction and the woman may be really beautiful - definately worth connecting with. But her priorities for that evening are not aligned with my own. That's ok - I wish her well and quickly move on.
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