I'm a decent enough pua in that I manage to get girls and numbers relatively often. The issue at hand relates to the fact that the girls and numbers I get are generally not from the girl I was trying to game. Nearly every time I get a kiss or F close I am genuinely impartial to the girl, and I figure that I might as well go for it because it's better than nothing. It seems that the moment I pick a girl to game, my actions change and I become undesirable to her. I have noticed that I do make fun of girls that I like a little too much, trying to force... something. Maybe being nice would work, considering I'm generally sarcastic to begin with. Picking a girl makes it tough to be indifferent, because I'm not.

What can I do to get the girl that I want, and not the girl that wants me? I need you Seddit!