It's happened to me so many times already. I meet a stunningly hot woman, who seems bizarrely attracted to me. Yes, me: an AFC with zero game and painfully beta body language and a high pitched, fast and babbly (very un-alpha) manner of speaking. She enthusiastically agrees with everything I say, leans into me, appears to be interested in the same things I am... bloody unreal.

Then the alarm starts ringing: if it seems too good to be true, it is too good to be true.

They are always single moms.

They are women who, because of their situation, have had to lower their standards to beta guys. Women who would not have accepted an AFC like me as their companion before they had had their alpha / thug spawn. No matter how charming, lovely or wonderful women these might be, that's the thought constantly gnawing at an AFC if they decide to go along with it. If the AFC has no children himself, he is basically condemning himself into providership - and extinction.

I am an AFC loner with no kids, and a dry spell of five years and counting. I focus on work, trudging through joyless, womanless existence. I have given up the thought of learning game - it takes so much time, and so many failures on the field (to learn from) that I just can't muster the strength.

Anyone else in the same situation? Do I have an attitude problem (straight out of Heartiste's blog)? Share your stories and tips please.