I am relatively new to the /r/seduction community - however through trial and error I picked up some of the skills listed in this subreddit. I definitely recommend it to anyone who has trouble with women even when they have a great personality. Anyway...

FR

Back story
I went to a local hooters with my coworkers, this must have been our 4-5th time at this particular location. I never really tried any tactics out of approach apathy - I just didn't want to go through the motions.

what happened
This time, I thought I would give some minor kino a go, it was more on a whim than anything planned. We had this server previously and I always keep good eye contact, spoke clearly, and confidently; however, the previous times it was nothing special just your average serving experience. When she was bringing back with our drink order I decided to see how she would react when I took my drink from her, I positioned my hand ever so carelessly but very carefully so that a couple of my fingers would land somewhat on top of hers (about a 1/2 inch of finger tips). As I did it, I was sure to make normal eye contact and thank her for bringing me the drink. The exact moment after I made hand contact with her there was a "zap" in the expression she gave me - hard to describe, kind of like someone who is shocked by trying to hide it. Previously she didn't have any kind of spark to her but after that minor touch I could tell she must have skipped a beat. The rest of the dinning experience was followed by a way above average number of table visits to come by and check on us. She began to speak louder to her other tables and coworkers. I kept up the minor kino when I needed a refill, I did this by seeing how she would grab the drink if I placed my hand in a precarious but normal way to pass a drink manner - She grabbed it with an equal amount of touch as I did the first time in addition to strong eye contact. She gave other strong eye contact by always moving her eyes to me at the beginning and the end of her talking to our table as well as full eye contact during my interactions. I didn't take it beyond that due to having a gf (coming on 3 yrs) and being a puss in front of my coworkers who did not notice the hand contact, not trying to close just trying to dust off my game.

Take away
- Try handing objects to a woman in a precarious positions. If she avoids contact she is not comfortable with you in her personal space. If she accepts the contact she is comfortable touching you. Proceed with caution.

This is my first FR - sorry if it sucked. I am trying to get out of my approach apathy just so I can keep up what I attracted my gf with.