I feel like this is a really basic base that's been covered extensively, but I guess I need some further reiteration.

Simply put, I always forget to do Kino. I always know I should be doing it in just about every moment except the interaction itself, and by the time I realize it, if at all, it comes out in an awkward hand on the shoulder. It's like I get where I'm supposed to use it for emphasis, subconsciously, but it doesn't come out right.

I mean, I'll do handshakes (Milked when I remember to) and high-fives, but beyond that, I can't seem to get into the flow of doing anything else naturally.

This is primarily for low escalation kino in daygame by the way. Nightgame I feel like I can get into that flow much better due to the club environment. Cold direct approaches during the day though, I just can't find where and how Kino goes into the flow. Primarily because I feel weird touching a random stranger unless we get fairly well into the conversation.

Can you guys provide some tips to help push me on this?