Need advice about GIRLS, SEX, and "the goal of seduction."

tofusoju · 2012-05-02T17:56:19+00:00

I think you need to re-read and re-read your tldr.

If you want sex for now then go get that for now and if the right girl happens to come up then lead that into a relationship.

You do realize that there are girls like you that don't want to be in a relationship but still want sex right.

2012-05-02T20:05:34+00:00

10/10 would get trolled again.

No, but in all honesty...thinking too much is dangerous when it comes to this stuff. Approach girl, build sexual tension through conversation, escalate physically (randomly touch her arm when talking, put your hand on her knee depending on the situation)... they should get the message.

If you want to study things, the side bar is your friend (and mine) -->

Tons of great info in there, and great reads as well.

Also, preferably you don't invest too many hours into a girl. This is why you get at least a few lined up. Stay busy, or seem like you are even if you aren't.

Your time is valuable. You are the chased. You are the prize.

TofuTofu · 2012-05-02T18:27:29+00:00

Push your boundaries, dude. Check out The Blueprint Decoded - it'll rock your world.

Start talking to every attractive woman you meet. Be suave. Get numbers, kino the shit out of them. Try to insta-date and fuck within hours of meeting them. It's entirely possible and PUAs are doing it all across the globe.

Once you learn that sex is relatively easy to get, you'll open up all sorts of new doors for yourself and you can become more selective with the women in your life. Tons of great relationships begin with sex.

Or don't.

fluidkarma · 2012-05-02T19:56:09+00:00

I would read the side bar, read The Game, Rules of the Game, and the Stylelife Challenge by Strauss, and then read Silver Bullets and Routines Manual...

...but 90% of pickup is working on your internal game, bettering yourself, making yourself more attractive to girls, and makeing you more emotionally & socially competent, which you can use however you want for your life.

2012-05-02T23:48:33+00:00

The goal of seduction is to free yourself from the fear of being alone, which often ruins relationships by making you too clingy, too scared and put too much value into someone else. If you know you have the ability to go out and get companionship whenever you choose, it makes all this easier.

Also, as a romantic, i really like the idea of giving women something to remember. How many bumbling, shy, feckless, coarse guys does a pretty girl meet in a week? Wouldn't it be nice to take them on an adventure, make them do things they never thought about, basically give them a vacation from themselves?

I have tied a girl up on our first date and it was her first bdsm experience. She still looks at me starry eyes whenever we meet (we don't fuck anymore however). Cannot even describe the feeling that gives you.

Nexism · 2012-05-03T06:20:03+00:00

When you keep reading into seduction you'll realise the real goal is self-improvement and that sex (even girlfriends) are extra optional additions.

Title	Need advice about GIRLS, SEX, and "the goal of seduction."
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Date	May 2, 2012 5:48 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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