Looking for insight from females who don't care about abs..

baaaark · 2012-06-02T02:13:15+00:00

There aren't many girls here, bro.

nephrion · 2012-06-02T00:01:04+00:00

You know how some guys really like butts, and some really like boobs, and some really like legs, and some really like feet?

Same with women. They have different preferences.

TofuTofu · 2012-06-02T00:39:47+00:00

How you present yourself is more important than how you look. If you have a six pack, that's awesome. Time to work on your inner game and to stop caring what others think of you.

Squand · 2012-06-02T01:34:17+00:00

Few of the girls I've dated have ever dated anyone who works out, outside of runner types. And it sort of baffles me, because abs and muscles look hot to me. But my type of girl, never seems to be into it.

As we mentioned to a guy a while ago who was worried about his libido. Lifting quickly changes your hormonal levels and you act differently on higher testosterone. A lot of people are turned off by physique because there is a stigma of "meathead" around it.

Turning a girl on to something she wasn't into before sounds cool, mr brainwash.

A girl told me once, "Pimple turns to Dimple," when you're in crush with someone. I always like when that happens. I always think of the minor defect as the key to their Harry Potter like superpowers. Though for me, it happens super early. I've never told a girl, "I wasn't into XYZ before you." I know girls who have heard it. And lots of girls have said that to me about chest hair. Even if it wasn't with me. There is some guy in their life who made them reconsider how hot chest hair is.

Glad you opened her up to new looks.

JordanG245 · 2012-06-02T03:51:07+00:00

Try posting this somewhere where there is a larger female population, like askreddit. I'm curious to see what people say.

princessacorn · 2012-06-02T05:30:28+00:00

Any woman of quality isn't going to care if you have a six pack, sure its nice but it shouldn't be what defines you as a man. And frankly if your abs define you as a person then you have a lot more to worry about.

gpua · 2012-06-02T05:48:28+00:00

A few weeks ago this girl came up to me and wouldn't shut up about how great my abs were, but she must have been high or something because I've got a somewhat obvious beer gut. Moral of the story is no one cares about your abs, you'll win more girls with the right demeanor than physique.

eric_norwood · 2012-06-02T06:51:49+00:00

What she was telling you was 'I like traditionally attractive features, but I don't want to openly admit to it because I would then seem shallow.'

Griffs · 2012-06-01T23:45:29+00:00

Yeah, I don't care about abs. I'm a face girl for sure.

xandranator · 2012-06-02T03:17:49+00:00

I'm pretty indifference towards abs, I mean, I really just don't like moobs.

notlurkinganymoar · 2012-06-02T05:01:42+00:00

Every girl wants a guy with six pack abs. Every guy wants a hot girl. The thing is, girls are attracted to the mind most. Get yr inner game straight and who cares what you look like. The girl won't.

Title	Looking for insight from females who don't care about abs..
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Upvotes	9
Comments	17
Date	June 1, 2012 11:12 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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