22 yr. old virgin had the chance to get laid, turned it down.

Iamagrocerybag · 2012-07-07T00:41:44+00:00

You should have done it, from my experience, most chicks talk like most dudes suck in bed. Just cave man that pussy till you cum, and then master you skills from that point on.

SpinMyRiki · 2012-07-07T09:56:00+00:00

why is everybody making the first time to be such a big deal? Sex really isn't that hard as long as you WANT to please your partner, everything will turn out just fine...I remember my first sexual encounter with a girl who was more experienced, she asked me if I was a player since she couldn't believe that I wasn't experienced.

Don't make a big deal out of it and just enjoy yourself. Sex is like Pizza, even if it's bad, it's still pretty good.

Maluz91 · 2012-07-07T13:58:15+00:00

I lost my virginity to a random drunk chick and honestly i regret it as hell, make sure it's worth it before you do it.

Crabpeoples · 2012-07-07T05:03:10+00:00

im a 22 year old virgin too. About to hit 23 in a couple months and i am pretty damn close to going crazy. I think about my virginity all the time and it brings me down. I have made HUGE progress with girls although i don't know if i can get laid any time soon. Problem i have is that i live with my parents. Sigh what to do what to do....

phukka · 2012-07-07T08:17:56+00:00

If you didn't want to do it, don't feel guilty about not doing it. Either you'll force your first time upon yourself, or you'll wait until the time is right.

If you're intent on getting some ass while on the cruise, just go and do it. You'll likely never see the girl again, so you don't have to care if you're good or not. Really, with most girls these days, they have no fucking idea what a good fuck is, anyway, so it doesn't matter. If you're concerned about PE or something, don't be. Just hit it again afterwards. The 2nd time will go much smoother.

askywalker · 2012-07-07T01:01:12+00:00

If you suck the first time, you'll probably suck the second time too. I understand the anxiety over the first time. I was 21 and I lied to the girl(my ex) and said she was my 2nd or 3rd. Most of it is innate and you can probably get a free pass on it being just OK anyways. Just make the girl the focus, the goal for you is more sex later not the best sex ever. Only need to do missionary unless she instructs you otherwise. And when its over make sure to touch their body gently (after glow).

The first one will seriously take the edge off, but afterwards you'll just think: really that wasn't that difficult.

Never been on a cruise, not sure how you juggle family and girls. But good luck!

fegh00t · 2012-07-07T01:35:39+00:00

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Balloons_lol · 2012-07-07T07:36:07+00:00

this cruise is an excellent opportunity. OP, you're going to be bad during your first time. Just accept that. but because you're on a cruise, you won't have to see the girls ever again (unless you get one pregnant - don't). So there's little risk.

Dicksphallice · 2012-07-08T00:41:19+00:00

Don't feel like you're alone man. I'm 22 and still a virgin. I've eaten a couple of girls out and fingered a lot but at the point I should have gone for the kill I couldn't bring myself to do it. Because I was religious until recently, I kept myself for marriage but now I'm kinda at a loss as to what to do when I'm with a girl now. We'll get there eventually...

RedTib · 2012-07-07T02:49:49+00:00

I know it sounds stupid, but I last a lot longer if I have to piss before sex. Like 30 minutes vs 1.5 hours. You'll feel like you're going to die after an hour and half of sex sometimes. EDIT: But in that 1.5 hour, the girl can get off like 6 or 7 times. They love it. You'll just want to pass out.

Karfanatik · 2012-07-07T11:59:30+00:00

being a virgin is no big deal. You shouldnt have turned it down tho even if you were scared. youll get over it once youre in

seriousguynogames · 2012-07-07T14:15:10+00:00

It's strange, because before I lost my virginity at age 24 (really old, I know), I had several freebies with actually rather good looking girls that I turned down. Instead, I lost my virginity with this rather average looking girl. Why did I not have sex with that hb9.5 half chinese half egyptian girl who totally dug me, or that taiwanese genius girl. At the time, I thought it was because I was not compatible with them, but now I can hardly make the case that I was any more compatible with that average girl I decided to lose my virginity to. I think it has to do with lack of confidence, and not believing that I could deserve to be with a girl like that.

Title	22 yr. old virgin had the chance to get laid, turned it down.
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Date	July 7, 2012 12:30 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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