Usually what happens is I'll see a girl I find interesting, I'll talk to her, get her number, everything will go smoothly, and somewhere between asking her out and the first date I just don't feel strongly about them, or I'll feel like I like them as a person but I don't have any strong feels about them.

I'm still not sure if it's a lack of an emotional connection i felt, or a physical thing, or a spark, I think it's a mix of all. I'll go on a date and by this time I would win the girl over, she feels like we click, she'd indicate wanting to sleep with me and be emotionally connected. I don't do this on purpose by the way, usually this all happens AFTER the first date. Most guys would jump at this chance, getting offered sex..but I turn it down.

At this point I start to reflect to myself and I start realize I don't feel particularly strongly about the girl at all, neither physically or emotionally. I also never sleep with them because I don't feel like we click, so I never use them or anything. But the whole lack of feelings towards all the girls I date makes me really lonely. I start feeling bad about it because I was so warm towards her and now I'm not....and it feels bad for her and me. And the fact that due to this I've never really been with any girl. I never feel like I like them enough, I'm starting to think that I should just push myself and maybe i'll start liking them.

I just have never met any girl that I've felt strongly about it, and I'm starting to think there's something wrong here...sometimes it feels hopeless, I'll get a number and ask myself what's the point? I don't feel anything for this girl. Might as well not waste my time.

I REALLY want to click with a girl, I want that spark, I want to feel attachment of affection or something towards the girl...but I find it all goes away and disappears. I don't know why or what happens.

note: I'd like to point out that I do feel affection, attachment, etc ..it's just this...I'm not some robot or anything.