Does being fit help a lot?

ImKumarYo · 2012-08-14T07:06:30+00:00

Yes, absolutely. Looks are not necessary but a lot of guys seem to underestimate just how much easier it is when you're in shape. It definitely helps your confidence but it's also important physically, especially if you're a smaller guy. Moving up a weight class totally changes how girls of varying attractiveness react to you. There's a great post in the Book of Pook that talks about this.

RockyDay · 2012-08-14T07:30:55+00:00

I have had several girls going on and on about how they can't find a guy to treat them well and then mid sentence chase after some guy with abs. We stop talking when a hot girl enters our field of view, it's likely to be the same for girls even if they deny it.

2012-08-14T15:42:52+00:00

They might be more open in the actual approach, but not the actual getting laid part.

If you plan on working out, I hope you do your damn squats and deadlifts.

paulgualtieri · 2012-08-14T07:07:41+00:00

It helps some. In the last 1.5 yrs I've went from 207 to 168 (at 6'1") and gained significant muscle. Girls are a lot more friendly on the initial approach. It's quite rare for anyone to reject you right away anymore.

But am I getting laid more? Maybe a little, and probably with somewhat hotter girls, but it's not a huge difference.

Gave me a lot of confidence though, so I sure do appreciate that. Being able to look around in almost any bar/club and say to myself "I'm the best looking guy here" makes it a fuck of a lot easier to approach.

look_science · 2012-08-14T07:13:40+00:00

Not only will you seem more attractive to women physically, the confidence boost you gain from being fit is substantial. Physically fit + high confidence will put you in the best position to become that alpha male. Plus, if the situation ever arises in the club that she wants to feel your bicep or abs, she's going to be impressed- thus building that attraction. Flab is not a turn-on for women.

Check out /r/Fitness and read the sidebar for tips on getting the results that you want, plus the FAQ's for nutrition etc. Good luck to you, and look forward to that extra swagger in your step the next time you approach a girl.

maddermonkey · 2012-08-14T09:05:27+00:00

I think it works if you also have a decent face.

I'm very fit (aside from chicken legs) and have an amazing upperbody but I think my face detracts from it so much I never get any action.

Alec105 · 2012-08-14T09:45:37+00:00

Does having a tight chest and abs make meeting girls a lot easier if you aren't that bad and the rest?

It does make meeting them easier, mainly because people will compliment and notice your improvements, thus giving you a self-esteem boost.

But giving it a 100% in the gym will only get you about 50% of the way to getting her digits.

2012-08-15T02:03:03+00:00

It's mainly the confidence that comes from it. Every time you increase weight in an exercise or just have a good workout you walk out of the gym feeling like the shit. At least for me I get the "runner's high" but with lifting. I feel like thats why a lot of people lift early in the morning because it really helps with getting on with the rest of your day

Title	Does being fit help a lot?
Author	LeoNemean
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Date	August 14, 2012 6:50 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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