First off, some background: I'm about 6 months into the game, a bunch of F-closes along the way (something to show for my months of work). However, I have one problem, which is I tend to have high standards, and not deliberately so -- my mind and body are simply just attracted to a very small segment of girls.

I know what Seddit would say, approach the ones below my standards anyway, see how far you get with them, etc. I did exactly that, and it led me to banging less-than-ideal chicks who thought that I was out of their league. In fact, all the chicks that I have F-closed so far more or less implied that I'm out of their league (e.g. they say things like "A handsome guy like you probably have slept with a lot of girls" or "Wow, you're cute" etc.).

The problem really comes when my body is not attracted to the chick, and I find it hard to get a boner when sexy time comes. I probably don't have ED, because I get hard as fuck with my fuck buddy as well as morning boners, but with unattractive girls, it's hard to get a boner. Sometimes I can get an attractive girl to bed, and I still can't get hard, because somehow I'm unattracted to that type of attractiveness (if that makes sense).

I suspect I may have a low libido, unfortunately paired with a high energy in approaching and escalating on girls. Or maybe it's really a performance anxiety thing, but I don't think so, because I'm relaxed as fuck with these chicks. Thoughts on moving forward? Anyone else has this problem?