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Tattoos?
/r/seduction26/03/24 01:46 PM
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Absolutely this is happening. If nothing else just look at the wider demographic changes. The US will have a minority white population by 2040. London for the first time has a minority white population. This is the direct result of mass migration. It’s happening.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 03:07 PM
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The problem is that our Western societies and the socialist programmes being run within them ultimately rely upon exponential population growth. No government in the West has been honest about this. Instead what we get is mass migration. We’re told multiculturalism is the best thing ever, that they all are going to be doctors, and that wholesale replacement of existing local communities is progress and diversity. And if you disagree with any of it you’re racist. Some form of mass migration works…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 08:14 AM
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You need to make a friend and go have a beer at a pub/bar. If your social life amounts to your mother and the gym no wonder you feel like crap. Go invite someone for a couple of beers. Honestly you will feel so much better and it’s something relatively simple you action right now.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 09:23 AM
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Look at her Instagram and then go watch TVD. It’s pretty insane.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 09:56 AM
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You broke up because she was on IG? facepalm
/r/askTRP09/04/21 01:39 PM
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Entitles? Living in a fantasy world bud. You’ve got to take responsibility for your own mess. If I want a cleaner I’ll pay for one. I swear half you lot here think it’s the 1950’s still and you’re itching to beat your wife with a mop handle because she didn’t starch your shirt collar properly.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:01 PM
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You sound like a man child that needs a woman to clean up after yourself. How about you offer to clean up for once?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:35 PM
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I call bullshit. I’ve had friends that are very good looking. I have seen women consistently walk up to them and hit on them. Zero game required. If you’re good looking enough you actually don’t need any game.
/r/askTRP30/09/20 09:06 PM
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What sort of age would one typically consider starting TRT if they’re reasonably fit and healthy already?
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:23 AM
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Where you meeting them?
/r/askTRP11/06/20 06:57 PM
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I think what really fucks them up and wears them down is having children. Yeah that I agree with. I think this is 'the wall' that actually matters. The one thing that noticeably limits an attractive women's ability to lock down a top tier guy is when she has children. It can also have a pretty huge effect on their looks. Of course most attractive women simply get around that by staying with the father and playing happy families.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:22 PM
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I’ll be honest, I think TRP overplays the wall a little. It’s not like a woman reaches 30 and becomes dog ugly. There are plenty of attractive women in their 40s and 50s. And these women getting older doesn’t really change anything all that much. They dine out on all the cock they could ever want year after year then simply end up picking one to settle down with. The irony of course is that they end living a more red pilled way of life than most men...
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:10 PM
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The play is she is texting at least one other guy the exact same thing.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:32 AM
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I think a lot of it is ‘porn culture’. A lot of young girls mimic this hyper-sexualised on screen behaviour because they know it generates attention. Idk about TikTok, but on IG there is literal hard data for girls in the form of likes to see which content does better - the more sexualised, the more likes. I don’t blame men, because as men we are programmed to be visual, high libido etc. Social media, internet porn, and let’s face it women in general, have conspired against men and use our biolo…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:44 AM
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This is inaccurate. It has been well established that up until now Covid 19 is more contagious and has a higher mortality rate per 100 000 population than most other similar viruses. Because it is a novel virus there is no form of natural immunity within the population, nor is there any form of effective treatment and vaccine. But hey, maybe injecting disinfectant is more your speed...
/r/TheRedPill27/04/20 07:41 PM
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Honestly, it’s people like you that are making this worse for everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 07:42 PM
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Seems to influence a lot of the advice given here. If you're in a LTR and your girl is getting dick you're a cuck. But if you're just dating her somehow you're not? I don't understand it.
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:59 PM
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What's the difference then?
/r/askTRP08/02/20 08:33 PM
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It’s a bit of a cliche, but the only thing that really works is time. One day you’ll wake up and you won’t even think about her anymore. You’ve moved on with your life. You have to keep the faith that day will come, because it will.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 06:57 PM
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See this is more along the lines of what I was thinking. I'm just worried, like one of the guys said above, I'm going to look like a bitch and low value if I gloss over this too quick. How do I approach this?
/r/askTRP01/02/20 01:50 PM
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You’re in good shape. What does your workout look like?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:30 PM
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Sounds like you’re afraid to breakup with your LTR bro...
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 10:07 PM
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Not worth the risk imo. Rather keep my hair than be marginally more jacked.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:31 AM
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From my experience, if you’re not willing to work in that particular industry, make friends with someone that is. A buddy of mine runs a bar and I get to make friends with all his staff, go to after work drinks with then etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 04:02 PM
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Personally I’m not a big fan of this dynamic. The whole ‘daddy’ thing freaks me out a little.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:57 AM
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Until recently, psychopaths were thought to have no empathy. Today we know that functioning psychopaths do have empathy, perhaps even more acute than other people. Could you provide a source for that? I’ve read a lot around psychopathy and never have I heard that before.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 08:55 AM
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I think maybe it’s just that a clear cut distinction is made. It’s very black and white. No confusion. If you can genuinely be friends with a girl you liked and there be no part of you that holds out hope one day something might happen then I guess hanging out with her is no problem. But if you do have feelings for her, then there’s nothing worse. It can be extremely painful being friends with her if that is the case. Some women, whether they know they are doing it or not, will take advantage of…
/r/seduction13/09/19 09:39 AM
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I eat 100 a week. Breakfast. Lunch. Dinner. Nothing but eggs. Looking to bump it up to 150. There’s nothing wrong with eating lots of eggs. Scientists have proven they’re good for you. Haven’t a shit in 15 days, but I feel great.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:36 PM
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35 eggs a week doesn’t sound like a good idea to me.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:10 PM
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So you feel no pang of jealousy at all? No sense of loss? You pull a HB9 that stimulates your body and mind, then leaves you to fuck other guys... that doesn't affect you at all?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:58 PM
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Hmmm, that... that actually made sense. So I've been thinking about sex as the emotional end point, when really she is using it as a tool to get to her emotional end point, which is commitment from the highest value male... ​ So do you have any reservations about sluts? You said it devalues women, why is that? ​ I'd love to see an expansive post on this over on the main subseddit. Either way, really appreciate your response, it's not often someone has provided me with a lightbulb moment like tha…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 10:10 PM
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Appreciate the thoughtful response. ​ To me indifference equates to something pointless. If I am genuinely indifferent to a girl, why even bother? Surely a man is motivated to action by his passion? ​ I feel like ultimately I am playing a game that is rigged entirely in favor of the woman. A woman has complete carte blanche to fuck as many men as she wants whenever she wants. And can she can do it with complete ease. I see it happening. There is literally no down side (other than the rare occasi…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:01 PM
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Honestly I don't know. Is it something that can be fixed? Is it wrong that I don't want to be kissing girls right after she has sucked 10 dicks?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 07:49 PM
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Women may be buyers and men sellers... but it’s a buyers market. I think people seriously underestimate the power that social/IG gives to a women. It’s tinder on steroids. I see girls on my IG post provocative pics and the floodgate of likes opens. God knows how many DM’s. Orbiters? Perhaps. But a lot of these dudes are jacked and good looking and you’re competing with every one of them. Withdrawing your attention means nothing, because women are natural plate spinners and social media is entire…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 06:44 PM
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I think that is what I am getting at: the game is inherently 'despicable'. We know how to play it, we may even equip ourselves to win some benefits out of it now and again, but ultimately we're playing a game in a cesspit where the prize is a hypergamous monkey branching cock hungry whore. And that's it. That is their nature. There are no good girls. That girl you think you love or you think loves you is a fantasy, she's simply waiting for the next best thing to come along or for you to fuck up.…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:09 PM
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I mean I agree to an extent - understanding the 'levers' is important. But what are the levers operating? It's a bit like thinking you were playing a game of chess only to discover you're actually playing beer pong with the bodily fluids of the last 6 guys she has sucked off. Is that an enjoyable activity and a game you want to get good at? Like I said, it just seems like a race to the bottom, where the only way to truly win is to be completely devoid of emotion (dark triad).
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:51 PM
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I can’t really explain it, but it’s unquestionable that the majority of men have a visceral innate disgust of women with high n-counts. Something is revealed by a woman about herself.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:18 PM
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What can I do? Stop being a little bitch? You're crying because you're not getting a present? Seems pretty whack to me.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 02:49 PM
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Did you have any concerns about the circumstances of the girls? I think a major thing that has always held me back from hookers is the idea that some have been trafficked. I don’t think I could live with myself knowing I contributed to someone’s misery like that.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 08:32 AM
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Personally I’ve never liked tattoos on girls. I just find that there’s something trashy and low class about them. I see way more shitty ones than I do good ones as well. Like the majority of tattoos I see on girls I can’t help but think they would look better without it. It’s super easy for a girl to get a bad tat and lower her smv.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:57 PM
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There’s no way you should be suffering a noticeable T drop in your 30s.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 12:02 PM
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n count of 5 at 28 is pretty impressive if she is hot. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:12 PM
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Don't like the sound of this one bit. Sounds as if she is getting her ducks in order ready for a breakup.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:59 PM
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I'm generally ok with being alone. I'm a natural introvert, so my own company is fine, which is a good fucking job considering everything. It's not so much that I want a girlfriend asap, it's more that I want a hot girlfriend asap or someone to casually date. I could go out tomorrow and get an unattractive girlfriend. What ends up happening though is that I meet a cute girl that I like, but then there's always something in the way. Always. It's like clockwork. I've come to expect it. ​ It just s…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:14 PM
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I mean, if it's significantly higher you might find it easier, of course. Are you intending to break them up or just go behind his back? ​ I've always found if the girl stays with the bf she will end up plating you, start posting pics of her and the bf on social, start playing you off against him. Shit gets dark if you develop any kind of feelings for her. Your frame has to be strong and even then you might get suckered in. Are you prepared to have this guy nailing her throughout the week and se…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:08 PM
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Been in this situation a few times. My experience is she might... to an extent. You're now in competition with the boyfriend. Doesn't matter if you're higher value, he is still the one fucking her and building emotional comfort - that counts for a lot, especially if they have only just starting seeing each other. He's also the one she calls her boyfriend and the one she'll tell everyone she is in a relationship with. ​ If you entertain this you're going to need some emotional resilience, because…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:54 PM
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Apologies; see above comment.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:37 PM
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Been weightlifting since I was 18. Natural ectomorph, pretty muscular though. 5'11. Face wise I would say I'm 7, maybe up to a 7.5/8 in good lighting. I get told I'm handsome. Hobbies aside from the gym... I read. A lot. I'm also out every weekend being social. ​ ​
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:35 PM
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Fair enough. Sometimes it's just curious to observe just how much a woman will tolerate beta behavior in a man. It's interesting to assess where the bar is set. It's surprising just how much of a bitch a guy can be before she dumps him.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 11:03 AM
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Who ever cares the least in the relationship has the most power. Competition anxiety ​
/r/askTRP07/03/19 10:54 AM
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I learnt a lot from dating an older woman. I still rank it as one of the most important and positive experiences in my life. A beautiful older women is a unique experience. Naturally it all ended in flames and I got extremely depressed for quite a while after it ended. If you like her and are prepared to suffer the pain when it ends, I would say keep seeing her and don’t care what others think.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:14 PM
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What if one of these guys is the beta waiting to kill him?
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:30 AM
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Appreciate the advice. I needed to hear it. I think what’s got me is that I feel like I am so close, apart from this one fucking obstacle. I feel like if I solve that I would get what I want.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:12 AM
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Fuck. You’re right. Am I orbiter even if we kissed? What should I do going forward, ghost her?
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:50 AM
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I know. Is there anyway out of this? Like I said my game has been pretty solid, so from her end it’s not like I have been some needy beta.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 10:37 AM
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My gut reaction is no. This is some beta behavior you would be displaying imo. She will undoubtedly question your credentials if you took her. Remember who ever cares the least in a relationship has the most power. Dragging her to take a lie detector test sets you up in poor position.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:01 PM
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You might not see any cons now, but surely they are coming further down the line? Personally speaking I’d be worried as fuck about my heart. If you do it long enough your heart will start to enlarge and that really ain’t good. Your testosterone levels are at danger too. A lot of body builders have to take maintenance doses for the rest of their lives because they have wrecked their natural production.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 08:45 AM
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I have to agree with an above comment, you’re coming off borderline psychopathic. It’s a weird simplistic proto-emotion/behaviour you’re advocating here. There’s nothing wrong with being kind to others. Go spend some time in a hospital and watch the brilliant and kind people there that are helping and saving lives. You might rely on their kindness one day when you have a heart attack or get cancer.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 06:48 PM
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I think you've gone too far the other way, pal. You sound like a woman hater. She knows she is trash and if you don't that makes you a fool No one should have to feel like they're trash (man or woman). On a thread about suicide if your attitude is to go about treating people badly and making them feel bad about themselves so you can feel like a 'big man', you need to look yourself in the mirror and see the piece of shit starring back. Than had fun with some 20 million pedestalized german women a…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 01:35 PM
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I'm looking dangerous mentality in the rear view mirror and cruising well into depressed-ville. Here's the crazy thing. I've been lifting since I was 18 (I'm not jacked, but definitely in shape), I've been following RSD since I was 23/24. I've read most of the recommended self help books. I've worked on myself pretty relentlessly. Being an introvert doesn't help and I let myself down by not taking enough action, but even still, I can attest to this stuff actually working. Even after all of that …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 10:28 PM
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It's unreal. I've always had a weakness for Spanish and Latinas. My ex was from Spain and if you get the opportunity I would highly recommend dating one. You won't regret it... well, unless you fall in love with her and she breaks your heart like what happened with me lol. But even then, I don't regret being with her. I would highly recommend dating any foreign girls, but a Spanish girl, no question, make it happen. You haven't lived until you've dated a Spanish girl haha.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:44 PM
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I think more than anything this has been the hardest thing to deal with. The soul crushing scarcity. When a girl breakups she just has to step outside her front door and there is a line of men waiting. The breakup is relatively easy and she just moves on. When a guy breaksup he steps outside and there is just tumbleweed. And that scarcity is even worse when you're dating a really attractive woman. To replace that is so difficult, even if you're fairly high value guy. The scarcity has killed more…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:27 PM
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I think the trouble is, I am a bit older now (recently hit 30), and the idea of a child doesn't entirely scare me like it once did. I know I've probably got another 5-10 years to make that happen if I want and live like a boss up until then, but goddamn a little Spanish child with her wouldn't have been the end of world. I also think my ego took a massive hit. I see this dickhead with "my" girl living the life I could have had and it drives me nuts.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:03 PM
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I took up piano lessons (something I always wanted to learn) and I started my own business. That has been great. But I feel like I am just going through the motions with it. I have always been a relatively up beat and positive guy and not much really gets me down, but this girl has really left her mark on me. Ever since the breakup I feel like I have been in this fog, especially since finding out she was pregnant. Which makes me think I might be in some kind of depression. It's pathetic haha. I …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 08:36 PM
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Most of us have been there man. I think the same the all the time that Ill never be able to find someone again as good as my ex, and it depresses me that even when I TRY to get back in the game I hardly ever come across a girl as hot as she is and when I do see one I chicken out. Yeah man, I know, it sucks. The pain is real.
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:57 PM
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It's good to know you found someone else. Honestly, the Spanish (Spain Spanish) thing was seriously intoxicating. Unfortunately, Spanish/Latina women have always been my type, even before meeting her. She was also very attractive. I almost wish she was just some normal girl that I could have gotten over in a couple of weeks and been done with it, but instead it was someone that ticked so many boxes I liked. Not only that, but I feel my chances of meeting another beautiful Spanish woman are not g…
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:46 PM
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Have you found a beautiful girl since her?
/r/seduction31/08/17 02:26 PM
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Yeah I do think time is starting to heal things a little. That said, I really am not sure whether I will ever fully be able to get over her. The crazy thing is she will never know how much of an effect she has had on my life. Like I said though to some extent my biggest worry is now the future. I would love to meet someone of a similar quality to my ex. I'm certainly biased, but I think by any objective standard she would be considered beautiful by most people. I don't know how I can find someon…
/r/seduction29/08/17 11:16 PM
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I hate to say it bro, but she has checked out. You've come out of the honeymoon phase and she isn't into it anymore. Could be incredibly hard to salvage this, especially if her emotions are starting to switch to "Nick". Prepare to enter a world of pain.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:45 PM
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So you don't believe the op when he says he would never act on it...
/r/seduction27/03/16 11:25 PM
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I don't know what that means.
/r/seduction27/03/16 08:40 PM
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That sounds awful.
/r/seduction27/03/16 01:26 PM
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If you're never going to act on it what's the problem?
/r/seduction27/03/16 01:23 PM
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Impressive that he managed to get Werner Herzog to narrate it.
/r/seduction07/01/16 11:34 AM
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I've followed RSD for years now and frankly I'm surprised it has taken this long for Julien to hit the papers. There's no question that his material is extremely dark and borders on sociopathic at times. If someone can take the underlying message, or is a hard case beginner, then great, but beyond that, I think his material encourages some really fucked up behavior in people. There's a dark side to pickup and its practice and some highly unpleasant people out there doing messed up shit. I person…
/r/seduction13/11/14 09:34 PM
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Are you saying the content of the article is false?
/r/seduction13/11/14 09:07 PM
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Nah I'm pretty sure he has copied that from RSD Julien.
/r/seduction02/10/13 12:42 PM
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Yeah, but how many of those good looking models with no chemistry did she fuck?
/r/seduction21/09/13 09:22 AM
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Not in this context I don't think. It's not a girl's business to know whether you have, or have not, been in past relationships. And if the OP is uncomfortable/embarrassed with telling some girl he hasn't been in one, then I don't see the problem with dropping in a white lie.
/r/seduction26/08/13 05:54 PM
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Fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:31 PM
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The elderly.
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:39 PM
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I remember Brad from RSD saying he was told by someone to wear black all the time. It's not actually a bad tip.
/r/seduction10/07/13 01:10 PM
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It's tough. Since getting into the game I've realised that I am really really jealous/insecure with any girl that I am interested in. I suppose it stems from lack of abundance. I hope that recognising it is a good step, and I'm trying to catch myself doing it, before I let it develop. It's tough and painful though - more than I expected it to be. I've just bought How to win friends... Is it any good?
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:01 PM
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I'm not saying I would advocate actively breaking a couple up... or would I???.... no no, I wouldn't. But, if I seduce a girl with a boyfriend, then as far as I am concerned he has failed on his end to be the guy he should be. He has failed to keep her attracted and he has failed to remain high value. What's more, he will learn from it, it will snap him back to reality - the next girl he dates, he will remember to stay sharp and not repeat mistakes he made previously.
/r/seduction11/03/13 09:10 PM
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If I can seduce her and she has a boyfriend then he doesn't deserve to be with her. I know many downvotes are coming my way, but fuck it.
/r/seduction11/03/13 08:23 PM
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Yeah, I got annoyed too, because I was expecting him to be fucking ugly, but he is probably better looking than I am! FML
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:32 PM
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Sorry, but a lot of this strikes me as being rather obvious and actually bad advice. I'm not sure I really understand what your point is.
/r/seduction17/02/13 12:56 PM
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Be a gentleman through your actions - you don't need to say anything. Open and let her walk through the door first, pull her chair out for her at dinner etc. That's always been my approach.
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:16 PM
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That's pretty interesting. What do you think about Julien from RSD? I'm a fan, but that guy seems to take being a ruthless bastard to another level.
/r/seduction26/01/13 12:21 PM
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Start wearing blue jeans, a shirt or polo (preferably red) and a blazer all the time. Nah.
/r/seduction16/01/13 06:37 PM
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Would you recommend bar work as a good job for pick up?
/r/seduction05/01/13 11:28 PM
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What about Vegas prostitutes?
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:19 PM
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Where do you meet these girls exactly?
/r/seduction01/01/13 04:16 PM
5

Cry me a river Wang Chung.
/r/seduction20/12/12 02:25 PM
38

I've never been to a place where there was a rocker, nerdy guy, and a man in a suit.
/r/seduction18/11/12 12:49 AM
3

WHO SAID THAT?
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:39 PM
1

I was with you up until you said you would off yourself if you didn't get a woman. The problem is, any women that you might get, chances are, you're going to scare her away by being too intense and needy.
/r/seduction27/10/12 02:17 PM
2

You just need to ask yourself whether your behavior was appropriate to the environment. I know the standard response is to say be friendly with everyone, but you also need some social awareness. I mean, if you were at a high end bar or a dinner party, would James Bond be grabbing Felix and holding him close? I don't think he would. He would be eye-fucking the hottest girl in the room and being ice.
/r/seduction08/10/12 06:48 PM
8

That French accent is disarming to a foreign girl. (That's why foreign accents always work so well when you are abroad, people just think you're a harmless and friendly.)
/r/seduction28/09/12 08:47 AM
1

Is there anything that can be done about the useless spam filter? I literally can not submit a single thing here because I get blocked.
/r/seduction27/09/12 04:02 PM
3

Same here. Met a girl that has the most attractive personality, but I had zero sexual interest in her. I tried a few times to convince myself that her personality alone was enough for me to have sex with her, but I was just kidding myself. You either find a girl that is really hot, but has a crap personality. Or, you find a girl that has a really attractive personality, but you are not sexually attracted to. Every guy's pursuit is to find the girl with the best of both.
/r/seduction23/09/12 10:56 PM
1

Do you not run the risk of becoming the rebound guy?
/r/seduction23/09/12 08:42 PM
3

You thought a 21 year old girl would settle down and want to start a family?
/r/seduction19/09/12 10:07 AM
3

Dude, you're in your 20's - you're not old.
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:09 AM
2

What if I put a condom on each finger? Will that work?
/r/seduction15/09/12 10:46 AM
6

He's not always that amazing. And I think he would admit that.
/r/seduction07/09/12 09:30 AM
1

hmm, I guess I don't want to be the alternative guy: the dopey friend and third wheel. I have nothing but positivity for my friend, and I'm taking this all very light hearted you realise. That said, my buddy now thinks he is Don Quan and that he is dating a supermodel. In short, he is trying to Alpha everyone. I just wonder whether if I played it a little mysterious with her, I wouldn't have to suffer his BS so much.
/r/seduction02/09/12 12:45 PM
-1

RSD should really hire him.
/r/seduction02/09/12 11:40 AM
16

I don't think there is anything wrong with that per se. I think where guys go wrong is that they buy into these grand romantic designs to the point that it alters what made them attractive in the first place to the girl. Perhaps an alternative way to go would be to think less; take more action. If you want to take a moonlit stroll on the beach, then do it; be spontaneous and enjoy the moment. Don't spend all week planning it in your head and investing so much of yourself in the fantasy.
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:08 PM
16

Be careful, I've seen a few guys that have let the ball drop and let other guys take the girl, simply because they they were too busy being social. It's a fine balance, but if it were me I would operate some kind of push/pull. Make it known she is with you with lots of kino, then go talk with some others, then amp it up a little with her some more, then talk to others and so forth. It will keep her interested, but also temper any needy behavior.
/r/seduction30/08/12 05:08 PM
3

Awesome post. I would like to read more from you.
/r/seduction18/08/12 12:44 PM
2

Beer and watermelon.
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:00 PM
2

I've watched this more times than I care to admit.
/r/seduction12/08/12 04:32 PM
1

This is definitely intermediate/advanced level. I can see a lot of newbies using this and bombing.
/r/seduction11/08/12 09:39 AM
1

You don't want to stare people down. A good rule of thumb is to maintain strong eye contact when the person is talking, but when you talk look away more.
/r/seduction09/08/12 06:47 PM
1

Don't hate, bro. Love as much as you breath.
/r/seduction05/08/12 04:56 PM
3

Yeah, it must really suck being a male model and not getting the hb10 fuck buddy you want for a semester.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:39 PM
3

Being needy is gross.
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:26 AM
8

You have two friends, right? Text both/one of them, and ask if they want to go for a beer or to see the new Batman film. If no one is available send another text in a couple of days. Just make sure you get one of them out with you. I fluctuate in and out of periods of being social and not, so I know that shitty feeling when you feel like you're doing nothing and have no friends. When I go out, even if it's just with a friend for a quiet drink I immediately feel better. You feel more abundant in …
/r/seduction22/07/12 09:49 AM
2

Haha. I heard Tyler takes green tea sachets with him into bars.
/r/seduction01/07/12 12:21 PM
4

Do you think you could have done that on his territory? I mean, if you had travelled two hours somewhere and he was surrounded by his douchebag friends, could you have done the same thing?
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:24 PM
0

My inner game is pretty solid thanks. You should probably learn to accept other people's opinions. You need to work on that. You're boring me now. Thanks for stopping by. Bye.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:18 PM
-2

LOL. I thought I was going crazy there for a minute. Thanks for confirming that I'm not. Your opinions on polyamory and open relationships are very much in the minority. Traditional values of monogamous relationships and not sleeping around are cultural norms within our society. I know that's not terribly cool and hip for bleeding heart liberal sex deviants such as yourself, but they exist, and they exist for a reason. I don't have a specific threshold.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:03 PM
-5

Where did I say this? I thought we were talking about the number of partners someone has had, not polyamory, don't strawman me Surely polyamory is a part of the same debate? Why exactly would you be pissed? Your mother would be 'enjoying sex' with multiple partners. Why would there be a problem? I would expect her not to be sleeping around Why? She enjoys sex, what's the problem here? Why shouldn't she be allowed to sleep with whoever she wants? Why are you so insecure?
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:29 PM
0

Ok. I know what I am saying is not extraordinary though. What I've wrote is not something new and shocking. I'm willing to bet that most men hold some similar opinion. I'm also willing to bet that women are as equally as disgusted at men that have slept with hundreds of women. Are all these people wrong in their intuition? In their reactions? Tell the next woman you're interesting in as honestly and sincerely as possible that you've slept with hundreds of women and notice her reaction. If there'…
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:18 PM
-5

you repeatedly singed out girls Clearly I wrote that in the context of the original op you muppet. That said, I think things are slightly different for men (don't misinterpret that) in terms of cultural expectations and biology etc. but she was my age once and must have had some fun. No, I'm talking about then and now. She likes to be gangbanged by gross dudes and you don't have a problem with that. You have zero problems. When you have a daughter you'll be pimping her out free of charge, becaus…
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:59 PM
-5

I could understand if you held yourself to the same standard but you've made it very clear that it's girls that should not have too many partners. No, I hold similar views on men as well. Try again chump. textbook piece of slut shaming right here. So your mum is a slut? Oh sorry, I meant, enjoys sex... I mean, let's face it, the logic of the argument extends to this point. You have no problem with your mum being fucked by hundreds of men. That's pretty messed up dude.
/r/seduction11/05/12 05:23 PM
-1

What? That wasn't constructive criticism, it was passive aggressive bullshit. I really hate the fact that anyone here with a conservative view on women (and drugs) is automatically written off and denounced as 'slut shaming' etc. I know you're proud of your mum being the local village bike, but unlike you I don't see that as a positive thing.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:18 PM
-3

Don't tell me to man up you prick. I know I'm fighting a losing battle here, but I've tried to explain myself and put forward an opinion and argument. You resort to ad hominem attacks rather than engaging the debate. I'm done with this. I'll be sure to have sex with your 'open minded' mom and sister to deal with my 'insecurity' when I see them next.
/r/seduction11/05/12 03:36 PM
-10

Yeah, for a quick fuck or whatever, I agree with you, I bet she knows her stuff. I think there's more to life and relationships with women than just that though. The problem as I see it is that these kind of girls just become sexual commodities being swapped around by all these different men. Everything just becomes degrading and low value when girls are easy. I'm being serious when I ask, would you rather be in a relationship with a girl that has slept with a couple of guys, or with a girl that…
/r/seduction11/05/12 01:11 PM
-15

because most girls my age have slept with 10+ guys I don't think that is true at all. Frankly, like you, I would be uncomfortable sleeping with a girl I thought I particularly liked if she had banged almost 20 different guys. I wish I could be as liberal and hippie as some of the guys here on seddit, but I am not, I don't find it appealing when a girl has slept with a lot of different guys. In my opinion it's cheap and skanky. I may just be perpetuating a double standard and sexual inequality, b…
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:37 AM
2

If 'seddit' is not a registered trademark (which I don't believe it is), no legal action can be taken and very little can be done other than writing strongly worded posts discouraging its use.
/r/seduction11/05/12 11:13 AM
1

We are 100% in control of our feelings I want to believe this, but I am almost certain science tells us something different. A lot of what you feel right now has largely been pre determined by prior events in your life. You can't possibly control the unconscious operations of your brain, and that is a place where everything arises from, into your conscious thought. Another way of perhaps putting it, is that your conscious mind is simply riding the wave of your unconscious mind. I hope this wasn'…
/r/seduction11/05/12 09:45 AM
26

Are those.... crushed velvet trousers?
/r/seduction29/04/12 09:49 PM
3

Really? Holding eye contact with a guy and smiling at him seems kind of homo to me. I'm with the OP on this one.
/r/seduction29/04/12 02:25 PM
3

I've been in this situation more times than I care to have been. My only advice would be to make sure you don't start to overcompensate and display approval seeking behaviour. Chances are you're dealing with a lot of douchebags who are simply not the kind of people you interact well with and bounce off of. It happens, you can't get along with everyone. In your own time, start to meet some new people and incorporate what you have learnt on seddit. First impressions count, so don't forget to take …
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:05 PM
5

Dominance doesn't mean dickishness Ignoring someone when they say hello to you is pretty dickish IMO. (Another classic move by the dickhead is to direct eye contact to everyone in a group conversation except you.)
/r/seduction25/04/12 05:54 PM
107

Give him a break you lot, he hasn't even taken her out yet.
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:51 PM
6

Does it not worry you that your friend will learn about the game and become a god? Seriously, if all the good looking guys knew about pickup wouldn't everyone here be back to square one? (prepares to get downvoted to fuck)
/r/seduction22/04/12 03:08 PM
-2

Will other people be on it i.e the girls there? I went to a party over xmas and was sober (maybe a few beers). The people there on MDMA just looked like twats. I'm sure they thought they were the shit, but from a sober perspective they were pathetic.
/r/seduction14/04/12 11:08 AM
0

Thomas Elliot is probably the finest actor of his generation. I can't wait to see him in the new Dark Knight movie!
/r/seduction10/04/12 10:51 AM
1

I don't sorry, that was just a repost of what someone posted a few months back.
/r/seduction04/04/12 09:42 PM
3

This?
/r/seduction04/04/12 01:35 PM
2

There's only one thing to do in a moment like this...
/r/seduction26/03/12 10:19 PM
1

Fellow red head here. I know where you are coming from. It's certainly another dimension that you/we have to tackle.
/r/seduction22/03/12 11:44 PM
-5

I don't think the community is liberal towards drug use (and rightly so IMO).
/r/seduction17/03/12 04:42 PM
1

It's qualification. Adam Lyons talks about this extensively. I've tried it a few times and I found it very difficult to master. You have to be extremely sensitive and aware of changes in the interaction you are having. It's easy to get put off your game and bomb. If you get it right though I think it's probably the most powerful form of pickup there is.
/r/seduction16/03/12 11:05 AM
1

I literally only just found his youtube channel last night. The guy has got some amazing seddit skills. He must get tail, or at the very least a lot of numbers.
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:04 AM
6

This works?! I thought you should make your intentions clear to girl that you like her. I'm so confused.
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:10 PM
7

I'm not trying to knock you, but it seems like you were all pretty wasted.
/r/seduction22/02/12 06:49 PM
2

Great post.
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:39 PM
1

Amanda is hot.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:04 PM
2

Ok, well I have some experience in this field. I look like someone famous as well and even though he is a relatively handsome dude I don't take it as a compliment either - in fact when people say something it usually knocks my confidence a little. I become very self conscious. I tend to grow my hair a bit longer which seems to throw the resemblance off enough. Anywho, my response now to anyone that says, you look like X, is "are you hitting on me?". It works well with women because you immediate…
/r/seduction29/01/12 12:45 PM
2

So how would you build comfort after using this opener?
/r/seduction29/01/12 12:03 PM
10

DBABDGAF: Pause like a pimp, lean back, show her the pearly whites. Then she walks off.
/r/seduction29/01/12 01:39 AM
2

You've kind of answered your own question there...
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:42 PM
1

The thing is, I don't think most guys go to awesome 'American Pie' style house parties with lots of hot girls there. I would much rather meet girls in that kind of environment; like you I don't particularly like the whole bar and club scene. ps, you're a lucky bastard. I'm hoping that in fact she was ugly :)
/r/seduction23/01/12 07:36 PM
1

What was the environment like? You sound pretty comfortable with everything. But remember, you were in a board meeting; there were presentations; team building exercises; introducing yourself to new people. She could have been pretty nervous and anxious with all of that, and the last thing she may have wanted was some guy gaming her.
/r/seduction19/01/12 11:29 AM
22

this isn't about tricking or manipulating Although I don't particularly agree with the OP, I do think there is a certain element to seddit/pick-up that is very manipulative.
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:40 PM
2

You should post a follow up.
/r/seduction14/01/12 01:08 AM
1

My best friend regularly f-closes girls that are drunk (as is he). He lacks zero ability to extend that or develop them into relationships. From what I can work out I think some of his problem is that these girls deep down feel cheap or shameful about the manner in which they went to bed. They naturally push away and refuse to get close to someone that reminds them of that. When I contrast how my friend operates and I how I do, there is a major difference to how girls respond. I make a point, fo…
/r/seduction11/01/12 04:04 PM
1

Whatever helps you sleep at night man...
/r/seduction08/01/12 10:45 PM
3

What. the. fuck. I don't want to unnecessarily alarm you, I really don't, but you are aware that many diseases and viruses are asymptomatic, right? Something like HIV may have a window period of considerable time before you or one of your partners begins to show symptoms. Also, do you honestly believe all these people you have been with are going to tell you what is going on with their health? I think that may naive or wishful thinking on your part. Just take a moment to look at the facts - you …
/r/seduction08/01/12 01:25 PM
7

Dude.... you really really should go get tested. You're basing an awful lot on assumption.
/r/seduction08/01/12 12:20 PM
4

She looks stunning here.
/r/seduction07/01/12 05:30 PM
9

Yeah, I would. (would it be posted here on seddit or on IAMA?)
/r/seduction12/12/11 10:38 AM
2

Crazy, Stupid, Love. I'm not even kidding.
/r/seduction11/12/11 04:12 PM
3

OMG some of these videos from Simple Pickup are hilarious. Subscribed.
/r/seduction30/11/11 02:29 PM
13

No way! I am also in LA and 7 months sexytimes-free. Maybe the the 3 of us should hook up?
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:46 PM
4

And how would one find this picture?
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:35 PM
3

Well, as a 27 undergrad, I'm beginning to see why you might be sleeping with a lot of women. You're in a pretty unique position, which most people don't find themselves in. You've got the maturity and confidence of a 27 year old, compared to most of the other guys there who are 18 and don't have a fucking clue what they are doing (well I didn't at that age lol). No wonder you have so many girls around you! If I were a 27 undergrad I would too!
/r/seduction17/11/11 05:25 PM
1

Ok I'm a dumbass, you said right in you title you're a college student. Apologies. 27 though? Are you doing a masters or something?
/r/seduction17/11/11 05:10 PM
1

Would you say your job(s) is a major part of how you get to know these women? Do you think you would be able to do what you do if you worked in a all male work environment for example? Also, am I right in thinking that you don't attend college, but simply work there?
/r/seduction17/11/11 05:06 PM
1

Noob question: should you tell girls that you think they are hot? Or is that just a beta move? I always thought telling a girl she was hot hands her power, because now she knows she has something that you want.
/r/seduction12/11/11 01:44 AM
1

2) Be nice through your actions, not your words. Great advice. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/11/11 10:50 PM
3

Is there any risk that if you ride your bike you may arrive hot and sweaty?
/r/seduction07/09/11 06:52 PM
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