Met a girl a few months ago. Find out she has a long distance boyfriend and things are a bit rocky, but she loves him. No problem, I ghost her and go about my business.

Due to some mutual friends, I end up seeing her fairly frequently over the next couple of months. Everything ratchets up and finally we end up making out a few weeks back.

The mixed signals I am getting are crazy though. She tells me she likes me and we kiss, but then she takes off and spends a week with the boyfriend. I know it’s beta as fuck, but damn that was rough to take. Now she is spending this weekend with him again.

She’s going travelling for a few months. When she gets back she said she is going to make a decision between us. I like her and I was never realistically going to be able to click my fingers and get her to dump her boyfriend.

I feel like I am limbo though. On the one hand my game has been very good and without really trying much I have developed something with this girl. I don’t want to cut my nose off to spite my face either. But on the other hand, she is still seeing this other guy and I feel like I am getting pwned every fucking time. It’s like she is holding all the cards, and if I raise anything with her I look like the needy jealous guy and I’ll blow it.