Hi guys. About me: 21, about to graduate uni, and have been lurking here for a long time. Wanted to provide an example of how abundance has changed my mentality.

My LTR and I have been growing apart - I can tell that the distance is because she’s getting attention from elsewhere. Sex has reduced, overall the desire isn’t there anymore. Was starting to get frustrated at the lack of effort on her part. Let’s call her “S”.

Couple nights ago, I hung out with my neighbor and a couple chicks he met off tinder. We played drinking games, and me and one of the girls, who we’ll call “E”, a HB8, really clicked. Got her snap.

Last night, I was hanging out with ANOTHER girl, “K”, HB7, and we went to a party together. E happened to be at the same party. Had barely spoken to S all day.

K and I were vibing, she was obviously DTF, but then E starts blowing up my phone. I go outside and see her in her car, getting ready to leave. I ditch everyone else and just hop in the car, said “let’s go”. She said, ok, where’s your place.

It was on.

I had S, who I have downgraded from LTR, in my phone, wondering wtf I was doing. K, a potential plate, wondering where tf I disappeared to, and E in my bed. After a bit of chatting, drinking, and smoking, E kept telling me how she was a good girl, didn’t do this often, and how we wouldn’t have sex.

Plausible deniability fellas. Told her I didn’t get the vibe she was Easy, and that we weren’t gonna have sex because I wanted to be a good boy.

I fucked her 3 times, each time better than the last. Her body was incredible, and the sex was better than with S. She was excellent - submissive, eager to please, and then even made me grilled cheese after.

Today, I hit up K and apologized for leaving her last night. She said no worries, want to drink and chill tonight?

Fuck yes.

On S - I told her we need some time apart and haven’t responded to her since.

If her behavior happened and I wasn’t fucking other girls, I would have been devastated. Surprisingly, as much as I care about this girl, I couldn’t give a shit about her anymore. Thought S was a unicorn, turns out, the girl from last night was better in every way.

On AWALT - S probably already has another option lined up, and is ready to move on. Fine with me.

Guys, Abundance mentality is real. Start spinning plates, start chatting with girls even if you don’t wanna fuck them. Having a bunch of girls in your phone will make you carry yourself with a different level of swagger.

Felt like sharing. Thanks for reading.

Update: currently kino(ing?) with K on my couch. Acting busy on my phone, replying to everyone on this thread. S just hit me with the “Are you up?” LOL

Update #2: didn’t end up fucking K tonight. Not sure what I fucked up but will evaluate when I wake up. Good night gents.

Update #3: Haven’t talked to S since yesterday. Holy shit, she’s going crazy blowing up my phone. She wants me to come over so we can talk. Nah.

Haven’t talked to K since she dubbed me last night - think I wasn’t direct enough in getting her up to my room. Whatever.

E just hit me up for the first time since we fucked, and I’m chatting a new girl, M, who I’ve wanted to fuck for quite some time. This will be my last update until I’m spinning 3-4 plates.