At first sorry for my english, try to understand. I was invited to homeparty hosted by somebody i didn't know, only one who i knew at the party was my friend. Party was really good from my point of view, about 10 girls, 3 boys. I take one of the girls as a "challange" she is cute, but a little bit shy. Having a casual conversation with the girl, starting with casual things "hello, whats ur name where do u go to school etc". because i dont want to scare her out. Later at the evening we move in to a bar, I talk to her all evening, she is sitting "under my arm", don't know how to say that, i wish you understand. I try to strike up a conversation like 15 times, she is replying nice and smiling, but not giving anything new to the conversation, i think about telling her she is not too talkative but end up thinking it would be too rude. Between the tries i do order drinks, talk to other people etc. I don't feel like asking million questions in a row. One of my stupid friends appear and start yelling me "oh ur getting laid tonight, oh u got a girl" and other stupid shit (how to handle this?). Around 2 am my driver is leaving, i tell the girl is beautiful and if she wants to meet me again just call me, giving her my number, not asking for hers because i'm not that interested about her i would actually call her, but if she'd call me that would be just fun activity to boring days. After all i wasn't that interested about that girl, but feels bad because i failed my challange. my own analyzing: Good things: - Proud of myself going to party hosted by unknown people - Proud of myself getting to know with several hot girls - Seems like i've finally got over my approach anxiety at all mostly thanks to seduction! Bad things: - Fucking friend of mine, seems like he cockblocked a bit, didn't know how to handle the situation - The girl didn't "warm up" - Feeling like i did something wrong, even thought i was just keeping her company and trying to be nice, (but not too nice lol) - I feel like i didn't win hers trust so she would actually talk to me. So, any thoughts?