I was killing at the club a few days ago. Oozing confidence. Had tons of IOIs from random girls. Built huge attraction with this one. We were dancing and she had her hands all over me. Anytime I got distracted, she'd be pulling at me. I enjoyed the attention I was getting, but made sure to choose her for the evening (I've found my game is worse when I bounce around to too many chicks).
Soon enough, the time comes to go home. My buddy, his girl, myself, and my girl all load into a cab. She makes a joke at my expense and I joke back that she better behave or I'll send her home alone. Then, I flirt a little with my buddy's girl. My girl got a little annoyed at this and says, "Well, here is where I get off... you still want to send me home?" I think she was trying test me/get more investment from me. I don't even blink an eye and gesture for her to get out. She stops the cab and I let her out without speaking (we never exchanged numbers). We drive off. My buddy is shocked. His girl is sitting next to me and is also blown away. Somehow, this turns her on a bit because she starts telling me, in a diff language that my buddy can't understand, how handsome I am and that I didn't need the other chick.
Looking back I kind of regret this because I put a lot of effort in with her and she seemed to really like me. At the time though, I felt I had to prove to myself that I could be disciplined or something...that my self-value did not come from her. Maybe I was just ego-tripping too hard. Have you guys ever done this? Am I a huge asshole?
Live and learn, I guess.
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