How do you tell if a girl has a crush on you?

manageo01 · 2013-03-17T05:17:31+00:00

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ThaDonKilluminati · 2013-03-17T04:29:17+00:00

IOI'd

Drop5Stacks · 2013-03-17T05:21:07+00:00

With all due respect, you're asking the wrong question. Don't be too focused on any one girl, go hit on many many girls. You will learn from the practice, and you will portray a less needy vibe (this is essential).

edit: getting downvoted for this, maybe I put the wrong emphasis with the phrase 'hit on many many' girls - but honestly, you should be social and out there and meeting lots of people (including lots of different guys + girls). Once you know lots of girls, you won't feel so alone/needy for any one girl's attention. If you're coming at this from the frame of "how can I get this one girl" - I'm sorry but you've likely already lost. This may not be what you want to hear, but it is what I think you should hear.

The focus should not be on overanalysing this one girl for IOI's (that is a recipe for failure), and more on building your social skills in general. That is why I'm trying to steer the discussion away from "Just look for IOI's"! You should be assuming attraction and making your move - willing to face rejection like a man. We all grow from taking rejection (even though it hurts our ego in the moment).

Helmet_Icicle · 2013-03-17T05:39:22+00:00

Sidebars must lead such a lonely existence.

AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions

SirMaxAlot · 2013-03-17T18:30:58+00:00

I saw this on Yahoo today, perhaps it will help http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=5228&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=1390823

taskarnin · 2013-03-18T01:35:35+00:00

Assume attraction. That is all. edit: Until proven otherwise!

manageo01 · 2013-03-18T12:21:35+00:00

I was involved with a girl for a month or so and she told me that there were at least a dozen of girls that she named that had a crush on me this I was absolutely clueless about. I only had roughly 2 very short relationships throughout my high school and to find out about that was unbelievable to me. I am "attractive" but I was also socially awkward, a bit insecure, lacking confidence, and was usually shy.

The point I want to get across is that it doesn't matter if a girl has a crush on you because chances are they won't do anything about it (well at least for me). Hell, I just wish I threw myself out there and talk to these girls a bit more which I never did back in high school. Just go out and talk to girls and get comfortable doing so while also giving subtle hints of your intentions and it will go a long way.

ego_detected · 2013-03-17T10:29:48+00:00

Oneitis love urself bro

_groundcontrol · 2013-03-17T14:22:15+00:00

God damnit guys. This sub is not about shit like this, oneitis is suppost to be downvoted like gore in r/funny.

We are suppost to learn how to seduct more, not help people getting the only girl that they like. Fucks sake guys

Title	How do you tell if a girl has a crush on you?
Author	manageo01
Upvotes	19
Comments	37
Date	March 17, 2013 4:25 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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