How many got into this to get over a girl?

ronmagicjohnson · 2013-03-28T16:10:02+00:00

Dude defriend her on facebook, hide any photos of her that that pop up in your news feed. If you don't see her, you'll get over her more quickly. It's weird because my big ex and i broke up like 4 years ago. It gets better when you put her out of mind. I still think about her sometimes, and miss her. The key is to cherish the good memories and laugh at the bad ones, part of you may always love her but that's ok.

1vibe · 2013-03-28T16:59:36+00:00

It's not that girl. It's the romanticized notion of the perfect relationship that your in love with, you'll find that in a new partner, not her. That said, I'll play until the relationship manifests.

kingofspoonerisms · 2013-03-28T15:55:52+00:00

I did. And reading your post scares the shit out of me. But even though getting over the girl might have been the motivation to get into seduction, I think self improvement has to be the motivation to continue. I just try to focus on making myself happy and history leads me to believe other good things will follow.

lepies_pegao · 2013-03-28T16:25:47+00:00

I guess everything changes once you start to feel good about yourself, the main reason I end up reading this subreddit was because I wanted to get over my ex. After two years I made some progress, met tons of fun people, went out a lot, started working out again, and now I'm applying what I read here into my life. I have to admit that sometimes I think about her, but I don't feel bad about - at the end I had a good time during our relationship.

Skiptoomylou · 2013-03-28T22:12:24+00:00

I am similar. I got out of a two year relationship and found my way here. My advice... You need to accept closure. Forgive. And the only thing that will really help is to actively search and find a better and more Complete love. The search should motivate you. At times you will be hit like a truck and those feelings will obviously still be there if your previous relationship had value. So the fix is to find value in yourself and potentially in another.

Title	How many got into this to get over a girl?
Author	InfiniteBlink
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	March 28, 2013 3:41 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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