One of the most important things I've learned in this community is to always be adding more to the group than you're taking from it. When you're the energy center, introducing friends to new friends, that's how you widen your social circle. Suggest places to go, start interesting conversations, tell interesting stories.

I know as an introvert that is hard, but your attitude should not be "I don't take on charities cases." Your attitude should be, every guy I don't want to fuck, I should help him get laid/find a girlfriend/meet new friends.

According to this field report, you've already successfully knocked down some introvert tendencies.

You should just be aware that social dynamics-wise, you can either be an energy giver, or an energy vampire. And energy vampires are completely forgettable. They don't get invited to parties. They're afterthoughts.

by meatpie

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