So guys, let me start by thanking you for all the advice you've given me since I joined this community about a year ago. I've taken enough information and I feel it's about time I gave some back.

What I've noticed over the past while is that Seddit does one of two things for dates 1) Coffee 2) Bar

While this is standard and usually yields second dates/closes, it's important that YOU don't get bored of these things. Cos' god knows if she's worth taking on a coffee date, then she's most certainly been on them before.

To tweak this into something not focused on you or her, turn the date into an activity. People watching is the simplest and probably my favourite. Chicks love judging people.

Now what makes this beautiful is everything we've learned. We are self styled experts on body language. And what are coffee shops and bars full of? People.

We have all this information, so why not share it? In your head, you become the MPUA when you teach her what it means when the girl touches his forearm, or when the guy across the bar escalates too soon and the set goes cold. Knowledge is power, eh?

I often throw little games in when I'm doing this at the bar. After I've taught her the basics, which she probably already knows, ill start wagering shots (shooters for our American brethren) on couples we see. "Who'll make the first move on who", and "Which couple will hook up first". I generally pick the wrong ones so she can feel she's learning. Positive reinforcement. She wins - I buy the next drink. I win - She buys the drink.

Here's a text message I received after my most recent people watching date. http://imgur.com/2tvh4eu.jpg

It works.

The great thing about bars is that alcohol just speeds up the end goal. Get to know the Barman at your favourite haunt and as mentioned before it will reap rewards.

At some point in the conversation, ask her does she want to know what her body language is like now & when you first met her. Chick crack. She always wants to know. Use this as an excuse for Kino if you haven't been Kino-ing already.

Be bold. She wouldn't have turned up if she wasn't interested.

Edit: Spelling

Edit 2: For those of you who think the word 'judge' denotes negative conontations, change it to 'observe'. If you're focusing on this fickle point, you're missing the main point of the post; which is to have fun with her and impart some of your knowledge