Another person posted this as an example of how society "creep shames" men who want sex.
I agree, they do. James Franco does not deserve to be shamed for wanting to tag a hot Scotswoman.
BUT, what can we learn from this?
We can learn that status, money, and fame are meaningless if you run "creep game."
I hate typing, so listen up. Link at bottom:
1) He was too needy. His text game was almost all questions, one right after another. "Where are you from, what hotel? Number, etc etc etc. Women hate questions. A few are ok, but do not interview her like she's a scumbag criminal in a bad cop drama.
A better response would have been "I'm going to this place at this time. Join me." And nothing else. You are James fucking Franco. Who the fuck is this chick? Nobody, that's who.
I'll admit, not having the resources a celebrity might, that's the best I could think of. Maybe a limo?
2) He ignores her LMR and continues to be dodgy. She said "I'll come back when I am 18. Clearly she feels "slutty." So long as she does, she's not not interested.
3) He absolutely fails a shit test. Put my name on a piece of paper. I get it, she wants proof that it's real. But it shows desperation. It shows her that James Franco thinks she's important enough thata celebrity will jump through hoops. In this case, he should have made some jokes about it at her expense before acquiescing. This is a combination of negging/creating comfort.
4) He tried to play game, but failed. this is a common newb mistake -hell, I have 100 sets and I still do it sometimes. he said "alright, I'm going." and then responded to her immediately. Follow the 2/3rds rule. Hold frame. Hold it like a drowning man clutches a life preserver. You say "bye." and you wait. Wait, and wait, and wait. She will cave.
5) Women will talk. They will tell EVERYONE your business. And she will spin it so SHE's the victim. Look how she posts like she's hurt more than the shame she'll receive.
In short, James Franco should not be shamed as a creep, but his attempt was graceless.
Your thoughts?
Link: http://elitedaily.com/entertainment/celebrity/james-franco-writes-thirsty-private-messages-to-17-year-old-girl-photos/
EDIT Seems that James Franco thinks he ran creep game: http://www.avclub.com/article/james-franco-artistically-explores-perils-social-m-203094
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